Is this normal??
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years; we have a mortgage together, no children and we are both 28.
The past week I've been feeling very "icky", I don't know how else to describe it whereas usually I adore him and find him absolutely irresistible. I thought this feeling would pass and perhaps I was hormonal but I still feel that "ick".
Some examples are, he will text me midway through his working day saying:
"Can't wait to see my gorgeous lady later ;)"
And I feel "ick"
Or he'll text"
"Want to sleep with you (he uses the "f" word though) so badly later"
And I feel "ick"
I'm currently taking 2 weeks off work and we were dtd during the daytime and I just kept thinking about how weird it was that it was daytime and we were dtd, rather than being lost in the moment like I usually would.
I don't know if it's the sexual says that gives me the ick rather than him himself; like he'll just say to me randomly in the day "you loved last night" and slap my bum and I just feel bluergh.
After typing this, I've realised it is the "dirty" talk that gives me the ick; perhaps I need to talk to him about toning it down as it's a bit full on!