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AIBU to be annoyed about people leaning on my car

41 replies

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 07:45

I am really beginning to think that I am miserable 😅

my car/drive as now become the local hang out spot for people wanting to buy drugs off the neighbours, I heard a lot of noise outside the other night I had a look to find that they were all leaning against my car having a good old chat.

AIBU to be annoyed about people using my car to prop themselves up?

OP posts:
ZekeZeke · 16/06/2022 07:48

Obviously you are not.
Report the selling of the drugs to the police.

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 08:03

ZekeZeke · 16/06/2022 07:48

Obviously you are not.
Report the selling of the drugs to the police.

Clash of “lifestyles” according to the Police

OP posts:
HappyCup · 16/06/2022 08:05

Set up a very obvious security camera. They won’t want to do drug deals on front of it. And if they do you’ll have actual evidence to pass on to the police.

MistyRuins · 16/06/2022 08:08

Maybe get a car alarm?

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 08:09

HappyCup · 16/06/2022 08:05

Set up a very obvious security camera. They won’t want to do drug deals on front of it. And if they do you’ll have actual evidence to pass on to the police.

“As they can not see what is being passed over they can not take action but they suspect it is only weed “

is the response when footage has been handed in

OP posts:
CoffeeBeansGalore · 16/06/2022 08:10

Can you get an alarm of some sort installed which will trigger if your car is leant on? They won't be so keen to loiter if your car is blasting at them.

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 08:24

CoffeeBeansGalore · 16/06/2022 08:10

Can you get an alarm of some sort installed which will trigger if your car is leant on? They won't be so keen to loiter if your car is blasting at them.

Yet more financial costs to us as no one will deal with these people

OP posts:
KangarooKenny · 16/06/2022 08:24

Is your drive not fenced off with a gate ?

Littlebirdyouaresosweet · 16/06/2022 08:27

Just keep going out to get something from the car.....
Our street had a carol concert a couple of years ago... A woman took it upon herself to plonk her arse on my new car's bonnet!!. Cf!!
And mnet said I was being petty!!

Knowbodysphool · 16/06/2022 08:28

KangarooKenny · 16/06/2022 08:24

Is your drive not fenced off with a gate ?

What drive ?

Shinyandnew1 · 16/06/2022 08:30

Could you get a motion detector security light to point towards your car. That will light them all up nicely! Perhaps they will move somewhere else as a response?!

if they stay and are stupid enough to deal drugs under the glare of a spotlight, hopefully the police will have more of a clear idea of what’s going on!

KangarooKenny · 16/06/2022 08:30

Knowbodysphool · 16/06/2022 08:28

What drive ?

Read the original post and you will see it mentioned.

MistyRuins · 16/06/2022 08:31

Yet more financial costs to us as no one will deal with these people

It's not illegal to lean against someone's car - so if you want to find a way to stop it, then yes, you should pay. That is not a police matter.

entropynow · 16/06/2022 08:32

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 08:24

Yet more financial costs to us as no one will deal with these people

Police didn't do anything when our house was regularly being pelted with stones and eggs. But once we bought a private cctv in desperation they were happy to come round asking to see footage to clear up other crimes. Never did catch the stones mob.

Philisophigal · 16/06/2022 08:34

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Leftbutcameback · 16/06/2022 08:38

That sounds horrible. Have you spoken to your MP? Might help prod the police into doing something more.

Knowbodysphool · 16/06/2022 08:42

KangarooKenny · 16/06/2022 08:30

Read the original post and you will see it mentioned.

Ah thank you 👍 🙄<<at me

Eeksteek · 16/06/2022 08:42

Sprinkler on a sensor. If nothing else it will make you feel better!

Herejustforthisone · 16/06/2022 08:45

Knowbodysphool · 16/06/2022 08:28

What drive ?

my car/drive as now become the local hang out spot for people wanting to buy drugs off the neighbours

Anothernosebleed · 16/06/2022 08:56

Do they rent or own? Might be worth reporting to landlord/HA If that’s the case. Worked for us!

heyitsthistle · 16/06/2022 08:58

Wait secretly in your car and when they start leaning on it, blast the horn.

XelaM · 16/06/2022 08:59

Eeksteek · 16/06/2022 08:42

Sprinkler on a sensor. If nothing else it will make you feel better!

This

ElenaSt · 16/06/2022 09:03

Speak to your MP and tell them how i affective the police are being.

ClinicallyProven · 16/06/2022 09:06

KangarooKenny · 16/06/2022 08:24

Is your drive not fenced off with a gate ?

😆

What world do you live in when all cars are on fenced and gated driveways?

woodencoffetable · 16/06/2022 11:07

Fullofhotcrossbuns · 16/06/2022 08:03

Clash of “lifestyles” according to the Police

Seriously? Is that what they said? that's mental.