Was she honest or rude?

[HappyMiddleChild]

Went to a colleague’s home as she was holding a make-up party. I thought it would be nice to take a bottle of wine. I didn’t buy anything especially, just picked one of the bottles of red from the two in the kitchen.
Arrive and hand over the wine, she took the bottle, didn’t say thanks, just said in a really disappointed voice “I don’t like red wine” as she took it into her kitchen.
I was slightly shocked and I’m kicking myself for not saying well I’ll keep it then.
AIBU to think she was rude?

Really rude. We’re you then expected to spend a load of money on some MLM shite?

*were

Rude!

Hope you didn't buy any of her overpriced pyramid scheme hun crap.

Rude but maybe stressed or joking, I wouldn't loose any sleep over it.

Well she was honest and rude. Just don’t bother going again op

I'd have said "well I don't like cheap makeup and MLM crap but I'm being polite and have turned up"

A bit rude. I detest red wine and it would end up gathering dust (or shoved in a tombola) but I'd be gracious about the gift.

Rude! I would of made a point of saying I dont like the brand of makeup shes flogging!

She was both.

Rude. I don't drink red wine but happy to splash it into casseroles/spag bol/gravy etc.

100% rude! I'd have taken it back tbh!

Really rude. One of our friends gives us a bottle every Christmas we just say thank you as it's a nice thought and I use It when I make Bolognaise

Rude.

I thought that the hosts of those parties were supposed to provide the wine?

Rice. It’s a gift, you just take it and pass it on to someone you know who will drink it.

She was brutally honest and very rude.

I get given and win bottles of red wine and don’t like red wine so I use it for cooking or regifting.

I definitely wouldn’t say anything.

Rude and no need for this level of honesty, she's showing a lack of manners and grace.

Rude, obviously. The correct response is along the lines of 'How thoughtful! Thank you.'
DP and I get given red wine. I don't drink and he's not a wine person, but it's not a problem; we just cook with it or take it to someone's house when we get invited. (no, we've not yet taken a bottle back to the person who gave it to us )

Rude!!

Rude , honesty is not always the best policyb

Extremely rude.

I don't drink but everyone I know prefers red wine so whenever I went to a friend's house, I took a bottle of red each time. We were out somewhere and her husband bought her a white wine spritzer and said she only likes white wine.
I so wish she'd said the very first time, I prefer white wine. It would have saved me the aggravation of thinking and her the aggravation of watching her husband drink the bottle to himself.

Yes, very ungracious. If she was wanting to avoid receiving red wine in the future, she could have said something like,

'Thank you - I'm more of a white wine drinker so I'll open this for everyone to share today.'

Very rude. She could have kept it for a gift or poured you a glass!

Both. Cheeky cow. Get a new friend.