Is my hubby wrong?

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Since been furload my DH spends his time either on computer or mobile fone. He doesn't seem interested in our two children. Even xmas day he got up then went back to bed after opening presents as he had hangover. Boxing day he stayed home while we went to my parents. I'm so fed up with this now. All he cares about is his computer. He seen a doctor but they say he's fine. What do I do?

What’s his excuse?

Why is he not being involved with the family?

You tell him how unhappy you are with the way he’s carrying on and that if it continues he’s jeopardising your relationship.

Tell him to get his head out of his arse and act like a parent or he can leave? Why are you putting up with this?

Ask him to move out to address his phone/pork addiction.

Porn! Not pork

How’s he still furloed?

When was he furloughed? Is he working again now? Is he depressed?

@TestingTestingWonTooFree

Ask him to move out to address his phone/pork addiction.

😂

Bacon is life!

Didn't furlough end last September? Shouldn't he be working?

Has he been sacked and not told you? Furlough is over.

Well something is going on.

The doctors will only say he is OM, if he goes in and isn't honest with them.

And yes, are you in the UK? How is he still furloughed?

If he isn't going to be a aren't or a time part of the family and isn't willing to look at improving, then I think its time to start planning a life without him

Tbh the doctor is probably saying he is ok because he is ok. He just sounds like he is being a lazy bastard and opting out. Or is he usually hands on?

@TestingTestingWonTooFree

Ask him to move out to address his phone/pork addiction.

😂😂

He isn’t currently furloughed. You need to find out where his money, if he’s contributing any, is coming from.

Then, it’s ultimatum time. And if he doesn’t improve this grim behaviour, see a solicitor about divorcing.

Switch off the WiFi! Then you need to give him a good talking to

Leave? Sounds horrendous

So is he at least doing all the childcare that is required whilst you work?

I dont think his problem is the screen time, if he went back to bed with a hangover

Leave him, he's a lazy wanker.

Furlough ended months ago.
He's not furloughed.
He's out of a job.
And leaving everything to you.

How can he be furloughed? It ended in the summer!
He has clearly lost his job and lying to you.

He’s got no job has he. Furlough ended weeks ago.

Of course he is wrong.
Stop enabling this behaviour now !

He is at it.

He sounds depressed actually.