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To interpret dh cimmwnts as passive agressivw ? Prep to be told so ! Am.tired.

51 replies

Freelady · 30/12/2021 20:29

So sitting down for dinner.. cooked by ds.

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Dh .. so i notice.yoy have nor cooked for a few days..
Me .. no. Why?
Dh .oh i was wondering if it was deliberate. ?
I cook.most days of the year. Hr cooks.once a.week. ovee c mas he did c mas day. Other than that as ww have guests , they made own lunch , i did.a.full.english one day , otherwise.we have had buffet each day if not out.
I have de junked for 3 days. Put table on freebie web site. Lady no car. She asked can i deliver for petrol.
Wd have to.drive to charity shop.anyway.
Dh did you.first check if she has anyone who cd pick it up.for.her?
Id assume if she had she wd have said .

I called him a bit of a grumpy name.
Shdnr have.
?! Am i be sensitive. He says it.was not.a value judegement on me at all
Oops.maybe am.overswnsitive .

OP posts:
Freelady · 30/12/2021 20:30

Aplogies ! Typed without my glasses on
Sorry for all the mistakes !!

OP posts:
TabithaTittlemouse · 30/12/2021 20:32

I think you need an interpreter

Freelady · 30/12/2021 20:33

TabithaTittlemouse apologised ! I did not have.mt specs on ! Oops

OP posts:
RainbowZebraWarrior · 30/12/2021 20:34

Apologies if you are feeling fraught, but your post reads like you are drunk.

onedayoranother · 30/12/2021 20:38

I don't think either comments have anything behind them. If you do most cooking and stopped for a few days a simple question - so what? If it was a pointed WHY aren't you cooking (meaning you should be) that's something else. As for the delivery - another non issue unless it was said in an aggressive 'you are a doormat' way.

moleeye · 30/12/2021 20:40

This has given me a headache

Reads like you've been on a 5 day bender

EishetChayil · 30/12/2021 20:41

Eh?

Freelady · 30/12/2021 20:41

Ok . I am.not drunk. I did not.have my specs on .

OP posts:
Kinneddar · 30/12/2021 20:41

I think I need a drink after trying to read that

daisyjgrey · 30/12/2021 20:52

@Freelady

Ok . I am.not drunk. I did not.have my specs on .
Can you go and get them?
TabithaTittlemouse · 30/12/2021 21:07

@Freelady

TabithaTittlemouse apologised ! I did not have.mt specs on ! Oops
Bless you! Maybe go and find them and start again! Grin
FangsForTheMemory · 30/12/2021 21:10

I'd be suggesting to your DH that he cook something or pay for a takeaway, tbh, if you've been as busy as that.

Kinneddar · 30/12/2021 22:28

Can you go and get them

😂😂😂

Thedogscollar · 30/12/2021 22:36

I'm very confused. Please try again with your specs.

SpellBounds · 30/12/2021 22:37

OP ask mumsnet to delete this and start again.

Offmyfence · 30/12/2021 22:40

@Kinneddar

Can you go and get them

😂😂😂

😂 😂
Offmyfence · 30/12/2021 22:40

Do you wear your specs when cooking?

NatriumChloride · 30/12/2021 23:24

@Offmyfence

Do you wear your specs when cooking?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
esloquehay · 30/12/2021 23:27

Please come back with specs and sobriety, OP. 😃

daisiesonmydress · 30/12/2021 23:29

Do you wear your specs when driving bloody hope so

CriminalOrator · 30/12/2021 23:33

@Kinneddar

Can you go and get them

😂😂😂

That really made me laugh, too.
madisonbridges · 30/12/2021 23:34

I can figure out what you're saying but I don't know why you're saying your husband is being passive aggressive. He asked why you hadn't cooked. If you normally do, I think that's a reasonable question. Obviously I can't judge the tone of his question
And he asked if the woman knew someone who could transport the table for her. Very good question because most people in FB seem happier to inconvenience the seller than to ask for assistance from friends.
Like I say, I can't judge tone, but on the face of it, his questions seem reasonable.

user1473878824 · 30/12/2021 23:36

@daisyjgrey several gold stars

GrazingSheep · 30/12/2021 23:40

What did you call him?

WhatTheWhoTheWhatThe · 30/12/2021 23:40

@Kinneddar

Can you go and get them

😂😂😂

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