What would you think if your dp made these comments about your friend

[Iamsocold888]

A friend who lives further away.

He said how toned she was and how she inspired him

Asked me what I thought of her new hair colour, said how cool it was

Said he’s thinking of sending her a message

Said we should go and visit her (a few hours away)

Sending me screenshots of things she’s posted, saying how cool

I’d think he fancied her

Your niece?

Exactly what the PP said.

Very strange.

Is he going through some kind of crisis, or trying to get fit?

He wants to shag her, obviously.

Is she toned?
Does she do cool stuff?

I’d think I’d feel happier if he wasn’t there

She is toned and interesting yes

What kind of “friend”? Nobody tells their partner they’re thinking of sending a message to a friend. That’s just weird. You know your instincts are right here - he’s pathetic.

Is he a complete idiot? If he does fancy her, which it seems blindingly obvious that he does, why does he think you will find that interesting?

If he fancied her, it’s a bit silly telling you all this.

Unless it’s a bold doublebluff.

He might have a bit of a crush on her.

I think I’d say, “I think you’ve got a bit of a crush on her.”

Has he met her?

Well weird

@Santaischeckinglists

Your niece?

Was thinking the same thing and whether it was the same OP too

What message is he intending on sending her?? What a first class wanker he sounds.

Was just about to ask if this is your niece and it's the same op. Seems very similar with wanting to visit and a bit of a journey there.

He’s into her no doubt about it, my OH thankfully rarely comments on other women, but when he does, I know she’s caught his eye.I’d be mega shocked if he started telling me he was going to make contact, in fact I’d throw him out.

He's got a crush and doesn't care enough about you to hide it.
OR
He doesn't fancy her but is trying to undermine you and make you feel shit about yourself.

I'm going with 1.

Is this a continuation to the thread about your niece the other day? Has it snowballed?

Sounds like he's growing an unhealthy obsession there. The problem is that you don't want to push it underground.

Whatever you do, do not allow him to visit her - with or without you. You need to get out of this relationship with him...he's clearly got issues and this won't be the first or only time.

@MrsFoxyplease

He's got a crush and doesn't care enough about you to hide it. OR He doesn't fancy her but is trying to undermine you and make you feel shit about yourself.

I'm going with 1.

This.

Didn’t you post about this the other day? Everyone told you he was a scumbag then, I doubt you will get different answers now.

Is she an fitness SM influencer?

Yawn same advice we gave you on the last thread

He wants to fuck her.
He also thinks you're as thick as pigshit. Seriously. He may as well just say right, I'm going to have a crack at her, see you later, wish me luck.