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What would you think if your dp made these comments about your friend

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Iamsocold888 · 24/11/2021 20:13

A friend who lives further away.

He said how toned she was and how she inspired him

Asked me what I thought of her new hair colour, said how cool it was

Said he’s thinking of sending her a message

Said we should go and visit her (a few hours away)

Sending me screenshots of things she’s posted, saying how cool

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Santaischeckinglists · 24/11/2021 20:59

Get rid of the slime ball.

videobaby123 · 24/11/2021 21:00

@SixQuidGames

Didn’t you post about this the other day? Everyone told you he was a scumbag then, I doubt you will get different answers now.
Exactly this. If it's the same situation I'm not sure why you're still with him if he's literally drooling over your niece. Not sure what more you want us to say
Iamsocold888 · 24/11/2021 21:55

No it’s not my niece it’s just an old friend from uni

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fabricfanatic · 24/11/2021 22:11

As everyone else has said, I'd suspect he's attracted to her and not even bothering to hide it. He's either not bright enough to realise how obvious he is or he doesn't care if you notice and end things with him.

It's a complete lack of respect for you.

1FootInTheRave · 24/11/2021 22:57

He's an absolute creep.

Likely planning on trying his luck with her and gives zero fucks about your opinion on the matter.

Get some self respect.

BornIn78 · 24/11/2021 23:00

It’s obviously you with the niece again.

Are you hoping for some different advice than you got on your last thread?

CambsAlways · 24/11/2021 23:04

He obviously wants to shag her very obvious, I’d get rid pronto

Idony · 25/11/2021 09:01

At best he's just trying to undermine your confidence. You don't sound particularly assertive or strong. Horrible men are attracted to people they can bully.

Just sack him off, you know he's a waste of time

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