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It's the 80s and I'm a teenager - is my mother being unreasonable?

178 replies

PresidentJoey · 06/11/2021 18:07

She's just gone mental about the phone bill Hmm Apparently I'm not allowed to speak to my best friend on the phone for an hour after school!?? I'm sick of her controlling me!! Angry

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ApolloandDaphne · 06/11/2021 18:09

You are lucky. We didn't even have a phone until I left home. I had to walk to my friends houses to speak to them!

Freddiefox · 06/11/2021 18:09

Can’t she get the bt friends and family deal and add your BF’s number! So unreasonable, so what if you’re been at school together all day

BruiserWoods · 06/11/2021 18:10

She is not BU

PlasticOrchid · 06/11/2021 18:11

Could you leave it til after 6?

TheMooch · 06/11/2021 18:11

You had all day to talk to each other... you walked home together for 30min.... what the devil else can you 2 find to talk about for an hour each night???

Oops sorry - that's my mum talking in 1980

Beamur · 06/11/2021 18:13

Are you me? 😂

Furrydogmum · 06/11/2021 18:13

My friends parents have a phone lock - she has to go to the phone box several streets away!!

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 06/11/2021 18:14

@TheMooch

You had all day to talk to each other... you walked home together for 30min.... what the devil else can you 2 find to talk about for an hour each night???

Oops sorry - that's my mum talking in 1980

TheMooch are you my sister?
TheWeeDonkey · 06/11/2021 18:14

So unreasonable. Ugh. Mums know nothing Hmm

PresidentJoey · 06/11/2021 18:14

We had important things to discuss before 6pm that couldn't wait until the morning. Like boys.

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JCFJW · 06/11/2021 18:15

Be thankful you even have a phone! My parents are fossils who STILL refuse to get one in the year 1980.

Cosmos123 · 06/11/2021 18:15

I rang a chat line from seventeen magazine it was fab but then phone bill arrived....

Phone now has a lock.

Not getting any crispy pancakes from kwik saves this week either now.

crumpet · 06/11/2021 18:16

It’s her fault. In the 80s the only phone in the house would have been in the hall, so she’d have known exactly how long you were on the phone for (and what you were saying) and should have nipped it in the bud sooner.

Butteredtoast55 · 06/11/2021 18:17

The phone lock has been installed by my Dad so I can't even ring anybody and it's so unfair!!!

AstonMartini · 06/11/2021 18:17

OP, the problem is that you're friends with the wrong people. You need to be friends with me, because my dad's company pays all the phone bills so I can ring whoever I like for as long as I like, and before 6 o'clock, too.

RonSwansonsChair · 06/11/2021 18:19

My parents have bought a "payphone", so I have to insert 20p to make a phone call Angry
It's so ridiculous, I only call my friends when it's very important (which it always is!)
But they don't know I can Jimmy it open and keep reusing the same 20p coin😝

ThatCampWitch · 06/11/2021 18:19

YANBU. Write in your diary and have a good vent! My dad has just come in and shouted ‘It’s like the bloody Blackpool illuminations in here!’ AIBU to think he’s really embarrassing?

PresidentJoey · 06/11/2021 18:21

I knew it. Literally EVERYONE had it better than me.

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mineofuselessinformation · 06/11/2021 18:23

You could get round the phone lock by jiggling the cradle to dial the number....

Proudboomer · 06/11/2021 18:24

Does you mum not have one of those locks on the phone that stops you dealing?

RuthW · 06/11/2021 18:25

@RonSwansonsChair

My parents have bought a "payphone", so I have to insert 20p to make a phone call Angry It's so ridiculous, I only call my friends when it's very important (which it always is!) But they don't know I can Jimmy it open and keep reusing the same 20p coin😝
20p! That's expensive. Phones are 2p round here.
PresidentJoey · 06/11/2021 18:26

@ThatCampWitch

YANBU. Write in your diary and have a good vent! My dad has just come in and shouted ‘It’s like the bloody Blackpool illuminations in here!’ AIBU to think he’s really embarrassing?
Omg I'd forgotten about my embarrassing dad! He didn't look like Stephen and chased him off Sad
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User12398712 · 06/11/2021 18:27

You were on the phone before 6pm! Shock Do you think your parents are made of money???

3asyp33l3r · 06/11/2021 18:28

Your friend’s parents have put a lock on their phone with the key in an envelope for emergencies. 😂The phone bill is scrutinised and they’re summoned for investigation if any expensive calls crop up.

PresidentJoey · 06/11/2021 18:30

@User12398712

You were on the phone before 6pm! Shock Do you think your parents are made of money???
Yeah but my mate only lived up the road so how expensive could it be to ring her?!!
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