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What have I just read on my TV guide .. Breast Feeding my boyfriend ...

64 replies

Finknottlesnewt · 25/10/2021 21:35

Just sat down to watch some TV.
Long list of nonsense on... looked to see if things improve by 10pm and came across this delightful offering on Channel 4.
Described as 'A look at the taboo surrounding adult breastfeeding, exploring a growing underground scene that ranges from women producing milk for their partners to the lucrative lactation porn industry' ..

AIBU to think that some things are taboo because they need to be. ? Where on earth can their be any interest in such a programme beyond simple voyeurism and an excuse for a program that will no doubt be full of breasts and the sexualisation of them by those with this bizarre fetish.

I know I sound like some easily offended DM reader . I really am not. I'm pretty laid back I think. Would describe myself as fairly liberal left wing - but to me this is unfathomable. It will neither educate nor inform ? Just entertain those with a bit of a warped kink. What next ?
Foot fetishises with multiple lovers, Vacuum pack my girlfriend ? Sex with my letterbox ? Perhaps you have some suggestions for taboos that need to stay that way ?

OP posts:
somewhereoverthechipshop · 25/10/2021 21:39

Really disgusting..sick of fucked up things being normalised. If you say anything you are accused of kink shaming.

Thedogscollar · 25/10/2021 21:43

Yet breastfeeding mothers are still made to feel uncomfortable for feeding their babies when out and about.

Makes my blood boil.Angry

daisyjgrey · 25/10/2021 21:48

I think you're right in that there probably doesn't need to be a programme on it (although you did watch it..). But if that's what people want to do in a consenting adult relationship then I couldn't give a toss if Mabel two doors up is breastfeeding her boyfriend as part of their sex lives. Entirely up to them.

somewhereoverthechipshop · 25/10/2021 21:50

She didn’t watch it, she saw it on the TV guide.

AlmostAlwyn · 25/10/2021 21:56

Clickbait in the form of TV and nothing more! You've done them a favour posting about it! No publicity is bad publicity and so on.

At the same time, I think there's quite a lot of TV programmes these days you could say was just "simple voyeurism" that will "neither educate nor inform". One of the reasons we didn't replace our TV after it broke!

I'm looking forward to "sex with my letterbox" though Grin

DdraigGoch · 25/10/2021 21:57

Your mistake was looking at Channel 4.

I'm beginning to think that Little Britain was a prophecy: "Want bitty!"

Ellie56 · 25/10/2021 21:59

What next ?
Sex with my letterbox ?

Grin Grin

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/10/2021 21:59

Sex with my letterbox made me 😂

Can’t wait for that one

Schmoozer · 25/10/2021 22:02

🤣🤣🤣🤣

PermanentTemporary · 25/10/2021 22:05

Any mention of the fact that this can be abusive domination by men and in countries where food is harder to get, put babies in danger of death?

miniwolf · 25/10/2021 22:05

Ewww this reminds me of those businessmen who pay to put on a nappy and sleep in a cot like a baby

PandoraP · 25/10/2021 22:06

When is sex with letterbox on? Grin

ScrambledSmegs · 25/10/2021 22:08

'Set with my letterbox' has already been done, except on a much grander scale.

documentaryheaven.com/married-to-the-eiffel-tower/

EasterIssland · 25/10/2021 22:08

@Thedogscollar

Yet breastfeeding mothers are still made to feel uncomfortable for feeding their babies when out and about.

Makes my blood boil.Angry

This. Unluckily those narrow minded will compare the bf past 6m a child with all this and shout their crap at mums like me that decide to carry on bf past the initial months and even into toddlerhood
LittleDandelionClock · 25/10/2021 22:08

@Finknottlesnewt

Vacuum pack my girlfriend ? Sex with my letterbox. Grin

LOL!

YANBU about the B/F my boyfriend. VOM!

Carolinechanning · 25/10/2021 22:09

I once read about a man who 'had sex with' his car via the exhaust pipe (take a break type magazine so I can't vouch for it's % of truth!) So sex with a letterbox us probably happening somewhere. Someone google it and find out Grin

Halloweenadoodle · 25/10/2021 22:10

I was watching 24 hours in police custody about someone being horrifically murdered then wham... men breastfeeding... channel 4 should have reappy thought about its scheduling.

DentalWorries · 25/10/2021 22:10

This might be the weirdest thing I’ve ever seen. The way he said he masturbated over the photo of her pregnant Envy

ipswichwitch · 25/10/2021 22:10

😂 sex with my letter box
Would that be the traditional style flap on the front door type, or the American sort like a box at the end of the drive? Tips on how to stop your small yappy dog from savaging your todger cos it’s mistaken you for the postman…

SoniaFouler · 25/10/2021 22:12

LOL. I was just going through my EPG and saw the title of this programme and thought “nope”!

ScrambledSmegs · 25/10/2021 22:12

@DentalWorries

This might be the weirdest thing I’ve ever seen. The way he said he masturbated over the photo of her pregnant Envy
You watched it? Why?
Finknottlesnewt · 25/10/2021 22:14

@PermanentTemporary

Any mention of the fact that this can be abusive domination by men and in countries where food is harder to get, put babies in danger of death?
I think that even in this day and age where there is an excuse for everything.. as everyone seems to have a 'justifiable issue' - that this would be a fairly long shot.

No I hadn't watched it. Which did make me question myself . Felt a bit like some right wing book-burner ranting about Lady Chatterleys Lover without having read it.. so have it 5 minutes before it was pretty clear it was a breast fetishists tit-fest.. so no surprise there.

... and no channel 4 .. to answer your strap line I do not want to 'free my mind by embracing different ways of being ' .. in this particular way. I want to be thoroughly repressed .

I'm sure my letterbox idea would fly though. There are so many different types .. the ones with the little brushes in their openings.. the ones that have a vicious spring-snap closure ... the possibilities are endless especially with the bee craze for video doorbells to record the action. A ready source of short films ...

OP posts:
Bothyboo · 25/10/2021 22:14

Of course whatever is on TV is sensationalist guff.

However I’m going to defend this here and say some people enjoy this as part of their relationship and I personally don’t see anything wrong with it.

I believe it’s differentiated from the adult/child play stuff because it’s more about a loving act between two adult partners- no one pretends to be a baby.

Of all the rough stuff and horrible stuff perpetrated through porn and mainstream media eg strangle play I can’t get offended by doing something so loving and nurturing.

UnknownFemale01 · 25/10/2021 22:15

Need to turn it off, gieing me the boak.

DentalWorries · 25/10/2021 22:16

I didn’t mean to! I was watching 24 hours in police custody, went to brush my teeth and when I came back I couldn’t believe what I was seeing Shock