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Tilly Ramsey being commented on by ageing male Broadcaster!

48 replies

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 12:47

Enjoyed watching Tilly over the last few weeks . Did well last week and seems to be enjoying herself .Why then does Steve Allen(67 years old and not exactly an oil painting!) feel the need to comment on her weight "Shes a chubby little thing" he was overheard saying about her. Really gets me annoyed!

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mbosnz · 20/10/2021 12:49

Typical male entitlement, with absolutely no feeling of a need for a filter for his judgmental misogynistic fucking mouth. Quite frankly if I were Gordon or Tilly or her mother, I'd like to bloody slap him in it.

BuckEmOrf · 20/10/2021 12:52

@mbosnz

Typical male entitlement, with absolutely no feeling of a need for a filter for his judgmental misogynistic fucking mouth. Quite frankly if I were Gordon or Tilly or her mother, I'd like to bloody slap him in it.
This.
Sapphire387 · 20/10/2021 12:55

Gross.

qazxc · 20/10/2021 12:58

He has a history of saying offensive things, last time he came to public attention was for mocking a blind persons choice of service animal.
Clearly this method (of being nasty) is the only way he can achieve being in the public eye. I'm guessing that Tilly has more viewers than he has listeners.

RB68 · 20/10/2021 12:59

Dear God she has a perfect figure - that fat old man should sort himself out before making such ridiculous comments

Hemingwayscats · 20/10/2021 13:01

He needs to look in the mirror before criticising anyone else’s appearance.

PandoraP · 20/10/2021 13:06

Awful man and agree with male entitlement.

AmyDudley · 20/10/2021 13:07

Good grief - she's a lovely young woman and seems very pleasant in personality. And even if she wasn't it's not his place to comment. I hope she is able to brush off such comments if she sees them, I worry about young people on TV being badly hurt by this sort of crap.
I love her enthusiasm, she's really thrown herself into the whole experience.

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:07

mbosnz Yes, I can imagine Gordon in particular giving him a good telling off.! Luckily the old guy is just on the radio ,so at least we dont have to see his stupid face!

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Pemba · 20/10/2021 13:07

Who is Steve Allen?

But yes, deluded like a lot of guys, and if he is an older man it is a bit creepy of him to comment.

She is a good dancer, but I wonder if she'd be there if she didn't have a famous father.

FiddlesticksMedi · 20/10/2021 13:07

Who the heck is Steve Allen?

Tilly is great. Loved her strong and passionate dance last week. (& the amazing hair do). Thought she looked a bit nervous but whatever.

Always some randomer wanting to be famous passing comment on Womens’ bodies.

Angry
wavingwhilstdrowning · 20/10/2021 13:09

Tilly is on 2 prime time shows and has 9million tiktok followers. This old man is just of no significance and appears to be very stupid.

Oneborneverydecade · 20/10/2021 13:10

This reminds me of my own dad's. My dad feels entitled to comment on my greying hair every time I see him, despite his own hair having been completely white for years. My step dad feels entitled to comment on my choices and those of strangers. They both get short thrift

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:10

AmyDudley ,yes she has answered his comments and said she feels its a pity he has to comment at all.Also many of the Strictly dancers have spoken up for her too. Maybe he will crawl back under his stone now and not come out for a while!

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dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:16

Had to check Steve Allen as well .Hes on LBC radio apparently .Just fucks me off these sort of guys need to comment on a pretty young girl enjoying herself !

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ElftonWednesday · 20/10/2021 13:20

I had no idea who he was, but safe to say he appears to have a good face and body for radio.

Wavey123 · 20/10/2021 13:21

I know who she is, and she’s great. He however I had to Google, still don’t know him.

AdobeWanKenobi · 20/10/2021 13:23

Absolutely loved John Whaites reply to Tilly.

"He's a piece of old sandpaper love, worn and used and has nothing to offer the world. And his vicious scratching has only left you polished and more fabulous. Love you."

picklemewalnuts · 20/10/2021 13:23

@Pemba

Who is Steve Allen?

But yes, deluded like a lot of guys, and if he is an older man it is a bit creepy of him to comment.

She is a good dancer, but I wonder if she'd be there if she didn't have a famous father.

She's there for the same reason Joe the vlogger, sister of the make up blogger was there. Popular in their own demographic. Totally unknown to me like every single one of the other contestants. Wait- I knew Greg what's his name. That's it.
VeniVidiWeeWee · 20/10/2021 13:25

@dottiedodah

Enjoyed watching Tilly over the last few weeks . Did well last week and seems to be enjoying herself .Why then does Steve Allen(67 years old and not exactly an oil painting!) feel the need to comment on her weight "Shes a chubby little thing" he was overheard saying about her. Really gets me annoyed!
Why do you feel the need to comment on his age and physical appearance?

Why not just say his comments were inappropriate?

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:30

VeniVidiVeeVee Well he is commenting on a pretty young girl ,who at only 19 is starting out on her journey .He like a lot of men by the seems of some of these replies ,seems to feel he is entitled to comment on young womens weight! I simply was implying that hes in no position to comment on anyones appearance !

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VeniVidiWeeWee · 20/10/2021 13:32

Yet you are entitled to comment on others appearance?

Pheasantlysurprised · 20/10/2021 13:32

Sounds like a typical insecure prole.

Carboncheque · 20/10/2021 13:37

The entitlement of old, white men.

ElftonWednesday · 20/10/2021 13:37

I would never normally comment on his appearance or any bloke like him, there are millions who look like that anyway. But I think if you make personal and unnecessary comments about someone's appearance publicly then you invite that kind of personal comment about your own appearance or character.

Plus there is a serious problem in this country, and probably around the world, with fuck ugly men thinking they are God's gift to the world and that they have a right to comment on any woman or girl who does not provide fodder for their mental wank bank.

Not that it is any better if a good looking man does it, but it seems particularly pot/kettle if the person making the comment is a right ugly fucker.