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Tilly Ramsey being commented on by ageing male Broadcaster!

48 replies

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 12:47

Enjoyed watching Tilly over the last few weeks . Did well last week and seems to be enjoying herself .Why then does Steve Allen(67 years old and not exactly an oil painting!) feel the need to comment on her weight "Shes a chubby little thing" he was overheard saying about her. Really gets me annoyed!

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dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:42

Elftonwednesday Agree wholeheartedly ! As I said earlier at least hes on the radio so we dont have to see him.

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VeniVidiWeeWee · 20/10/2021 13:44

@ElftonWednesday

I would never normally comment on his appearance or any bloke like him, there are millions who look like that anyway. But I think if you make personal and unnecessary comments about someone's appearance publicly then you invite that kind of personal comment about your own appearance or character.

Plus there is a serious problem in this country, and probably around the world, with fuck ugly men thinking they are God's gift to the world and that they have a right to comment on any woman or girl who does not provide fodder for their mental wank bank.

Not that it is any better if a good looking man does it, but it seems particularly pot/kettle if the person making the comment is a right ugly fucker.

Fine, so point out that they shouldn't be commenting on appearance.

Why stoop to their level? What makes you so special that the rules you want in place don't apply to you?

TheKeatingFive · 20/10/2021 13:46

Arsehole

dottiedodah · 20/10/2021 13:46

VeniVidiVeeVee . I would not normally be commenting on anyones apperance ,however he has taken it upon himself to make these sort of comments . There are many ordinary /overweight /older men who dont seem to behave like this!

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Stompythedinosaur · 20/10/2021 13:47

He sounds absolutely disgusting. What a pig.

FleasInMyKnees · 20/10/2021 13:49

Who is Steve Allen. I have never heard of him.

ScrambledSmegs · 20/10/2021 13:52

My kids have watched Tilly's shows for years, she's got a long-running show on CBBC and I think she's pretty famous.

Never heard of this bloke before, and liable to forget him as soon as I hit 'Post', but it's yet another example of men feeling entitled to judge women - particularly young women - and hold us to standards that they can't attain themselves. Hypocritical creeps.

TheNestedIf · 20/10/2021 13:53

Steve Allen is, and always will be a waspy, pursed mouthed misogynistic little fuckstick. One of three reasons I stopped listening to LBC.

He's not perving over her, by the way. A very young Daniel Radcliffe during his Equus run is more fodder for his wank bank.

mbosnz · 20/10/2021 13:57

Allen opened the door. He invited comment on his appearance, when he , with no good reason, commented disparagingly and publicly on another person's appearance.

TheNestedIf · 20/10/2021 14:01

He's a lot uglier on the inside.

MissChanandlerBong81 · 20/10/2021 14:05

I think the appearance of the man making the comment is relevant. OP is highlighting a sexist double standard - a woman’s sole purpose is to be ornamental and pleasing to the male gaze, but male appearance doesn’t matter - which is why a man 50 years older than Tilly thinks he’s entitled to pass comment on her body.

minou123 · 20/10/2021 14:27

another example of men feeling entitled to judge women - particularly young women - and hold us to standards that they can't attain themselves

I think ScrambledSmegs has hit the nail on the head.

Tal45 · 20/10/2021 14:43

Never heard of him.

Feelingparanoid · 20/10/2021 14:44

Is that the Steve-Allen-with-the-micro-penis Steve Allen?

Someone should start a twitter account for him.

I agree that it's related to male entitlement.

MrsKeats · 20/10/2021 14:52

Has anyone seen Jason Manford's instagram or FB
He is spot on about these dinosaur broadcasters.

Hillarious · 20/10/2021 14:57

Don't know Steve Allen, don't listen to LBC (there is a world outside London), but this is all wrong. By drawing attention to his comments, saying they're out of order, and then commenting on his appearance is just feeding into the general idea that perfection is being young and slim.

daisyjgrey · 20/10/2021 15:32

@RB68

Dear God she has a perfect figure - that fat old man should sort himself out before making such ridiculous comments
This comment is in no way useful, and makes you just as bad as him.

Try again without making it about anyone's weight.

Lostmarbles2021 · 20/10/2021 17:24

Carboncheque

The entitlement of old, white men.‘

This.

goingtotown · 21/10/2021 22:49

LBC has-been, should be sacked.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 21/10/2021 23:31

@Pemba

Who is Steve Allen?

But yes, deluded like a lot of guys, and if he is an older man it is a bit creepy of him to comment.

She is a good dancer, but I wonder if she'd be there if she didn't have a famous father.

He's somebody on the Nobody is Listening shift at LBC radio, whose earlier pronouncements include that Max Clifford couldn't possibly have been a sex offender, he just liked trying to help those fat little girls from council estates.
OrangeJuiceAndNoodles · 22/10/2021 00:08

Makes me absolutely fucking furious.

I went outside a few weeks ago with a cold sore patch on. My next door neighbour, a fat, over the hill guy, came over to point it out to me. Yeah I know, it's on my face!

Anyway, point being, I wasn't looking all that attractive, so a man had to come tell me. I am so sick of men.

So yeah, I'm severely fucked off on Tilly's behalf.

RoseRedRoseBlue · 22/10/2021 00:14

Those people saying that Gordon Ramsey should get involved....given his history of rudeness to others, I am not really sure he would be able to take the moral high ground here.

ellyeth · 22/10/2021 00:38

How vile of this man. I got the impression that Tilly Ramsey was rather lacking in confidence, and finding that she was able to dance gave her a real boost (and I think she danced rather well).

This commenting on the appearance of women is typical of some men who think they are God's gift even when they are most evidently not.

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