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Just Run

55 replies

cakeandcustard · 01/10/2021 22:08

On the BBC news advice to women if stopped by the police is to ask to speak to the control room on the radio or if in doubt 'just run' ... WTAF Angry I'm speechless, how is that protecting 50% of the public?

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AnnieSnap · 01/10/2021 22:10

And the big burly Police Officer with sinister motives will just accept that won’t he? 🤷‍♀️🤬

postingfortraffichere · 01/10/2021 22:10

And then get chased and arrested for resisting 🙄 ridiculous

SickAndTiredAgain · 01/10/2021 22:11

Who was giving that advice?

cakeandcustard · 01/10/2021 22:14

BBC news at 10 on iplayer now at 22.03

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FellInLoveWithABanana · 01/10/2021 22:15

Imagine being a woman of colour and doing this.

postingfortraffichere · 01/10/2021 22:16

@FellInLoveWithABanana

Imagine being a woman of colour and doing this.
Exactly!
00100001 · 01/10/2021 22:18

Wimmin it's your fault you're being raped and
murdered!!

Just run away, because we all know wimmin are faster at running than men.... Look at all those women beating men in the 100m sprint...

BabbleBee · 01/10/2021 22:19

All of the responsibility is being placed on us to keep ourselves safe. Flag down a bus, call for help, just run….

No, just no.

XenoBitch · 01/10/2021 22:21

Running will make you look suspicious as hell, and if anything more than likely the cop will chase you.

I was in a cop car when the cop driving noticed a woman spot the car, quickly turn heel and run into a back lane. The cop called it in, and asked someone else to go check her out.

OtherInfo · 01/10/2021 22:22

I run, I'm a woman in my 50s and I could probably beat most average men over 10 miles. I'm pretty fit. Over those first 20 yards though, I haven't got a chance against pretty much any male.

00100001 · 01/10/2021 22:22

How about them saying this?

MEN DON'T FUCKING RAPE AND MURDER WOMEN

LaProcureure · 01/10/2021 22:23

That’s fine, because women are generally faster at running then men. Oh no, wait…

romdowa · 01/10/2021 22:25

The advice in the media has just basically been stop getting murdered and raped by dodgy men. We don't want to do anything about these men , so you have to just stop getting hurt by them 🙄🙄

MereDintofPandiculation · 01/10/2021 22:25

We've been told that we ask to see the warrant card, then we know he's a genuine policeman and therefore "safe".

Now we know that a genuine policeman may not be "safe.

That's the problem that needs to be sorted.

If you speak to the control room, they'll just say "yeah, he's one of ours". That would not have helped Sarah Everard.

OtherInfo · 01/10/2021 22:27

@MereDintofPandiculation

We've been told that we ask to see the warrant card, then we know he's a genuine policeman and therefore "safe".

Now we know that a genuine policeman may not be "safe.

That's the problem that needs to be sorted.

If you speak to the control room, they'll just say "yeah, he's one of ours". That would not have helped Sarah Everard.

That's an interesting point. Presumably even though he was off duty they would have confirmed he was legitimately able to able an arrest? I'm sure he'd have waited patiently while she checked anyway.
cakeandcustard · 01/10/2021 22:27

I can't outrun a snail, I'm fucked Angry So much for public safety

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Autumngoldleaf · 01/10/2021 22:30

Imagine saying "this to a woman of colour"

Imagine the world wide absolutely outrage saying that to anyone of any sex of coulor?

What is going to change for us? How and when?

Apartheid stopped in South Africa and yet women in nealry half the world live under some form of control, told what to wear how to dress.. What to do where to work or not work who to marry what their privates should look like..

00100001 · 01/10/2021 22:30

Just Run
LynetteScavo · 01/10/2021 22:31

Oh yes, how silly of all the women who have ever been raped and murdered. If only they had turned on their heals and run away. Why didn't they think of that?

Angry
Autumngoldleaf · 01/10/2021 22:31

Mere

Absolutely.

He's one of ours.

OtherInfo · 01/10/2021 22:34

I'm going to share the hell out of that 00100001

Men's responses will be very telling, but I fear some of my female friends won't get it either. Lots tell me how I am unreasonable I am to go anywhere on my own after dark, for example.

cakeandcustard · 01/10/2021 22:39

And on the local news ... The North Yorkshire Crime Commissioner says we just all need to be more streetwise.

Why is there no analysis of the causes of male violence anywhere, like literally anywhere ... just all the things women do wrong...

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OtherInfo · 01/10/2021 22:41

@cakeandcustard

And on the local news ... The North Yorkshire Crime Commissioner says we just all need to be more streetwise.

Why is there no analysis of the causes of male violence anywhere, like literally anywhere ... just all the things women do wrong...

TBF he has completely backtracked on that now but it absolutely demonstrates underlying attitudes.
SickAndTiredAgain · 01/10/2021 22:53

TBF he has completely backtracked on that now but it absolutely demonstrates underlying attitudes.

Because he was made to I imagine

Jasmine11 · 01/10/2021 23:54

This advice is insane but surely a gift to any female criminals caught in the act of breaking and entering etc who will be able to resist arrest and make run for it with unwitting members of the public cheering her on and even helping her evade arrest.

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