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Help!! Need a dress in 8 days that won’t make me look like a whale!

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Fruitbatdancer · 30/09/2021 19:21

I’ve recently hit the gym for first time, hired a PT, lockdown has me looking 40 and frumpy. I’m feeling great, first time since kids I did anything just for me, like I can actually have a smidge of confidence, I have a charity ball in 8 days which I wasn’t going to but I’ve now got courage to, I’ve lost half a stone, but I’m still big and apple shaped. I need a size 22 (or 24 if it’s built for people with no boobs) I’m short and round 😭 But don’t want to look it. There’s bugger all in shops as you know, it’s all lounge wear! Help me find a dress that’s flattering, and can be delivered by next Saturday! pleeeeeeeese! I’m open to most colours but black is my go to! Heeeelp! It’s black tie. So needs to be glam! I don’t know where to start.

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ElspethFlashman · 30/09/2021 19:24

ASOS Curve is your friend. And if you do Premier delivery it comes very very quick.

You order as many things as you can afford and do a try on in your bedroom and return what you don't want for free. It's a lifesaver if you're in despair at the thought of hitting the shops.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 30/09/2021 19:24

I don’t know the answer but I’m absolutely sure the right dress exists! I think you have to pay a bit more for flattering dresses in bigger sizes though.

Belledan1 · 30/09/2021 19:27

Look at bonprix and fashion world/simply be. Lots elasicated dresses. If you want to go in the shop that Yours have some nice stuff. My friend got a nice plain dress from bonmarche. I just discovered Asos too.

Hankunamatata · 30/09/2021 19:28

Might be worth hiring a dress

Merryoldgoat · 30/09/2021 19:29

Look at chi chi - I’ve had stuff from there and I’m bigger than you.

xmasdealhunter · 30/09/2021 19:31

would one like this suit? the website has loads on offer, and you can filter by occasion x
www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/maya-curve-embellished-bardot-maxi-dress/et848/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=5014&optionColour=Navy&pdpClick=true&optionSize=22

MrsDThomas · 30/09/2021 19:34

Silkfred have lots of lovely dresses.

usethedata · 30/09/2021 19:35

Scarlett and jo dresses are my go to for this sort of thing

Rolypolybabies · 30/09/2021 19:35

Look at monsoon maxi dresses in a Jersey fabric and team with a long cardi from there. Really flattering and comfy

PinkFootstool · 30/09/2021 19:36

Have a look at @DonaldStanley on Instagram - she makes bespoke, but also has a sample sale on tonight. I'm clinging on to hope she'll have something suitable for my Xmas ball!

LittleGwyneth · 30/09/2021 19:37

@Rolypolybabies she can't wear a long cardi to a ball!!

FellInLoveWithABanana · 30/09/2021 19:37

Scarlett and Jo are MADE for this

Hankunamatata · 30/09/2021 19:38

www.next.co.uk/style/ls154160/R04261#R04261?i=22

MrsWhites · 30/09/2021 20:00

Love this one too...(after realising that if you are short you will probably find maxi dresses too long for you - I know that feeling)

www.boohoo.com/plus-occasion-sequin-angel-sleeve-midi-dress/PZZ66822.html?color=125

Spanglybangles · 30/09/2021 20:02

I came on to say next occasion wear but see other next suggestions. My examples to throw in the mix from next

Help!! Need a dress in 8 days that won’t make me look like a whale!
Help!! Need a dress in 8 days that won’t make me look like a whale!
Fruitbatdancer · 30/09/2021 20:09

I love some of these thanks ladies, is full length the way to go though? I’m worried I’ll look like a marque 😢 I had no idea that coast did my size (they DID NOT when I was a teenager and never even thought of ASOS. I love the first one I think, but wonder if I should be brave on colour!

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NashvilleQueen · 30/09/2021 20:11

The first one is available in black (and that's what I meant to post!)

NashvilleQueen · 30/09/2021 20:12

And I meant to post this and not two of the same!

https://www.karenmillen.com/curve-multiway-slinky-jersey-maxi-dress/AKK01876.html

Seriallover · 30/09/2021 20:16

Boohoo
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