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Get your tits out and a thread to restore the faith.

35 replies

Curerofsouls · 26/09/2021 13:05

Went out last night with my husband and our friends (another couple) to see a band. A woman rather annoyling sat on her mate's shoulders happened to be wearing a bra type top. The man next to me shouts "Get your tits out love". Men surrounding look at him like he just shat himself and he laces it with " well you were all thinking it".
Several men saying " no we really weren't ".
On he traps, my husband walks out and get the security guards he is removed with a massive drama of screeching about the injustice and he was just having a laugh. Men around give a slow hand clap and boo, call him a "dick ead" and the show goes on.
Folks of mumsnet while there are many sexist twats out there, there are also some right good eggs. He spent the entire brillant show on the steps outside. Im sending my complements to the venue and the security response.

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GoWalkabout · 26/09/2021 13:36

That is something

Lostmarbles2021 · 26/09/2021 13:37

That’s such a great response! Well done those men. The times they are a-slowly-changing.

BrightYellowDaffodil · 26/09/2021 13:39

That is truly something to gladden the soul!

TheQueef · 26/09/2021 13:40

It would have made my night.
👏

YetAnotherSpartacus · 26/09/2021 13:42

Fucking excellent.

PlanDeRaccordement · 26/09/2021 13:42

Yay. This is great. We need more of this.

ThreeLittleDots · 26/09/2021 13:43

Thank you for posting that!

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 26/09/2021 13:45

Ha! Serves him right.

jeaux90 · 26/09/2021 13:46

Brilliant! There are many good men. Sexism and objectification needs to stop, we know where it leads.

Eyesofdisarray · 26/09/2021 13:50

Fab- well done that man

GreatPotato · 26/09/2021 13:53

Yes, a friend of mine (in his 40s) gave his mate a right good dressing down for wolf whistling at a young woman last weekend too. They do exist and it is happening.

LukeEvansWife · 26/09/2021 14:00

Out of interest, were the men condemning him with women at the time?

Chocaholic9 · 26/09/2021 14:04

This is nice to read.

LazyDaisy22 · 26/09/2021 14:10

Great to hear OP

OhGiveUp · 26/09/2021 14:21

@LukeEvansWife It's irrelevant whether there were women with them or not, because if a bloke isn't bothered by such things then they wouldn't care whether they were or not, it's not unknown for blokes of that nature to pass similar comments in front of their own partners.
Stop trying to turn the thread into a man bashing thread
Good on him Op and the others supporting him. 👍

LukeEvansWife · 26/09/2021 14:37

I'm not man bashing. I'm asking a question

Heartofglass12345 · 26/09/2021 14:42

That's amazing! My husband, while he loves my boobs, would not have been thinking that lol

OhGiveUp · 26/09/2021 14:46

@LukeEvansWife Why does it matter if there were women with them or not?

Dinoroaraus · 26/09/2021 14:48

Horray!

Somethingsnappy · 26/09/2021 15:06

Good! I'm very glad that 'body with a penis' was chucked out.

TaraR2020 · 26/09/2021 19:45

This feels really good to read!

Taoneusa · 26/09/2021 19:49

Woohoo! Out with the Lout!

Cakecrumbsinmybra · 26/09/2021 19:51

Thanks for sharing 😊

Curerofsouls · 27/09/2021 01:31

Twas a happy occasion indeed absolute zero tolerance or second chances given.Grin

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Porridgealert · 27/09/2021 01:33

There should be less tolerance to women on men's shoulders. Its blinking inconsiderate.