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Lily Cole

76 replies

sst1234 · 18/08/2021 00:03

Is she for real? Surely no one can be that much of an idiot? Do celebrities behave like this deliberately in order to generate publicity for themselves?

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OhWhyNot · 18/08/2021 13:47

Apparently she is an activist

Who doesn’t bother keeping up with world news as she she was unaware of what was going on in Afghanistan Confused

She still doesn’t quite get it

Hmm

The egos of some people

AdriannaP · 18/08/2021 13:50

Seen her speak on a feminist panel once - she went down the Not all men route. Was pretty unimpressed and she came across very badly. Not sure why she was even on this panel - the other speakers were real feminist activists from other countries (India etc). She is not very clever.

ElvisPresleyHadABaby · 18/08/2021 13:57

I don't even think she is very pretty, or at least those photos aren't flattering. She's having with less sense than my 14 year old, time to get off tiktok Lily, you're not a teenager.

Antinerak · 18/08/2021 14:06

@AdriannaP

Seen her speak on a feminist panel once - she went down the Not all men route. Was pretty unimpressed and she came across very badly. Not sure why she was even on this panel - the other speakers were real feminist activists from other countries (India etc). She is not very clever.
Wow, I hadn't heard that!

Why tf does she have a platform as an activist when she doesn't have a clue about seemingly anything?

Lottapianos · 18/08/2021 14:07

Having a baby and being married to a man don't make her straight. She can sod right off with her 'queer' nonsense though. And the burqa photo - absolutely no words

Mrsorganmorgan · 18/08/2021 14:09

OhWhyNot

Good heavens above! The horrific happenings in Afghanistan has been all over the newpapers and the news.

MrsWooster · 18/08/2021 14:16

I haven’t seen the burqa tone-deaf horror show, but I have to admit to a schadenfreude giggle when I read the previous DM link from Facebook; it went on and on about how she identified as ‘queer’ which is a slur afaiac while the reporter straightfacedly listed her exclusively male previous partners, her heterosexual marriage and her child. Hard to imagine anything less ‘queer’ or indeed more self-satisfiedly, conventionally middle class.

Kithic · 18/08/2021 14:31

total bollocks ahead from her website

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countrytown · 18/08/2021 14:38

no common sense, that's the problem.

SilverTimpani · 18/08/2021 14:40

@HumdrumGuga

Yes, what does queer mean? She has baby with a male partner but isn't straight?! I don't understand.
loud, frustrated bisexual sigh

I have a baby with a male partner and I’m not straight. It’s not particularly unusual.

LoislovesStewie · 18/08/2021 14:42

More to the point; why should I be interested?

Changechangychange · 18/08/2021 14:43

@DismantledKing

She’s as thick as mince.
The stupid thing is she really isn’t. I do agree she seems to have take leave of her senses posting this. Perhaps her SM content manager is thick as mince? Doubt she posts this stuff herself.
Pebbledashery · 18/08/2021 14:44

What a stupid girl.

Samcro · 18/08/2021 14:45

yabu for bringing H&m into a thread about her.

OhWhyNot · 18/08/2021 14:45

I think it means at times you have been sexually attracted to your own sex

Something many people feel but have no need to inform others on sm as are self aware enough to know that it’s not that interesting

I could understand if her sexuality was a talking point but it’s not well not until this incredible act of bravery and honesty Hmm

HumdrumGuga · 18/08/2021 14:47

Yes, I get that, but what does queer mean? I am not being goady, I am asking the question.

I understood queer to mean homosexual, clearly am wrong?

HumdrumGuga · 18/08/2021 14:47

My post was in reply to @SilverTimpani

MinesAMassiveSalad · 18/08/2021 14:51

Shamanic plant medicine might explain it 😂

DesperateForSun · 18/08/2021 14:51

“Queer” nowadays means “straight but I want attention”.

She’s a woman married to a man. Even if she’s bisexual (not what she has said) then she still doesn’t experience any discrimination in her current heterosexual relationship- women have always been free to marry men, have had a lower age of consent than same sex relationships, have not been subject to different laws for lewd behaviour, face no restrictions on blood donation, next of kin or inheritance rights.

Blossomtoes · 18/08/2021 14:54

@Livpool

Agree she is daft.

Also - off topic but I read the link - when did 'queer' become acceptable?! I have friends who are gay and lesbian and I cannot imagine them using the word. It has vile connotations to me. I am 41 though so maybe I am just past it 🤷🏼‍♀️

It’s reclaiming it. The same as some black people use the n word.

Do keep up, I’m much older than you!😉

HowToMurderYourLife · 18/08/2021 14:59

@Kithic bloody hell I am cringing for her. That’s the kind of crap I spouted when I was 13 and thought I was all deep and clever. I am thankful everyday that the internet didn’t exist back then or I would have to change my name!

countrytown · 18/08/2021 15:01

The lack of awareness in posting the photo is amplified by her saying she was not aware of the news at the time! How is that possible? I'm sure she is a guest & hosts many dinner parties with similar minded & highly educated people where they pontificate re the worlds problems. Not that I'm stereotyping a certain type of North Londoner 😆

SilverTimpani · 18/08/2021 15:04

@HumdrumGuga

Yes, I get that, but what does queer mean? I am not being goady, I am asking the question.

I understood queer to mean homosexual, clearly am wrong?

Queer used to be a slur describing gay men.

Nowadays it does mean something different. It’s an umbrella term covering a range of sexual identities which are ‘not straight’. It can include, but is not limited to, bisexuality, pansexuality, asexuality etc.

The fact that it is an umbrella term means it is often met with scoffing and eye rolling by homophobes who may be just about willing to tolerate gay men and lesbians, but won’t countenance the existence of non-straight people who don’t fit those categories and who write them off as attention seeking or otherwise illegitimate.

BeenHereForAges · 18/08/2021 15:04

Foolish & self absorbed.

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 18/08/2021 15:08

Burqing Up. Now that's a new appropriatiative phrase I hadn't anticipated.

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