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To give up my kids?

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rghltifndn · 07/08/2021 08:18

I’m a single mum of 3.

One a toddler, one with additional needs.

I just cannot cope anymore.

I have no support network.

No family or friends probably because I am a horrible person with mental health issues.

No input from ex.

I fantasise about committing suicide on a daily basis because I can’t cope with how relentless my life is.

I never, ever get a break.

Oldest and youngest have sleep issues so I barely get any sleep.

I can’t go on.

They would be better off without me but l don’t know how to go about doing this.

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YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 07/08/2021 09:50

Hello @rghltifndn we're so sorry to hear how you're feeling. You do not sound remotely like a horrible person and your children would not be better off without you. Please remember that you're only human and have a heck of a lot on your plate. We're glad to see that you've reached out for help, but you may also want to take a look at our Mental Health resources. You can also go to the Samaritans website or email them on [email protected]. You could also get in touch with Gingerbread who offer support and run groups for single parents around the country.

Support from other Mumsnetters is great and we really hope you will be able to take some comfort from your fellow posters, but as other MNers will tell you, it's really a good idea to seek RL help and support as well.

We also like to remind everyone that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.

Best wishes from all at MNHQ.

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