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Neighbors

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Ubradgh · 12/07/2021 23:13

So I’ve thought about writing this for a while. We’ve bought a beautiful house in the most perfect village. Everyone is absolutely lovely. Except our next door neighbors. We both have massive (to me) gardens. The husband has told me that his wife wants absolute privacy whenever she is home. Which is bizarre because they have an extension with windows which look out into our gardens. So when we moved in they didn’t want us to cut down our trees. We cut them to our preferences and they were not happy! 9foot our side. The other thing they have a massive problem is , the Bbq. They say we should only cook when they are not home: they are vegi. I have obvs laughed at this . But they are very vocal when im out in the garden doing anything now. Also, they have a dog that howls all bloody day. So am I BU? Yes we have bbq whenever the weather allows , probably 40feet away from their house:

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ScreamGulpLaughandGasp · 13/07/2021 07:44

I'm all for keeping the peace but seriously that's all a bit extreme
If you know you are not purposely goading them, not sure if I've worded that properly - just carry on
You can't live your life through their preferences, that's ridiculous

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