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AIBU?

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Original poster

To be turned off this guy?

60 replies

naddycheer · 18/06/2021 22:56

Second date with a guy tonight.
We went for food then a crazy golf course.
He won.
He started smirking afterwards.
I asked him what was up and he said he had told his friends he had "ruined" me at golf.
He said they are asking him if he has "ruined" me in the bedroom yet.

This immediately put me off him.
Aibu or would you be a bit put off too?

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thistimelastweek · 18/06/2021 22:57

No, I would be totally put off.

Andromache77 · 18/06/2021 22:58

Ewwww

Tanfastic · 18/06/2021 22:58

I'd think he was a dick, yeah it would put me off.

Conchitastrawberry · 18/06/2021 22:58

Urgh that’s vile 🤮.

AmethystMoonShine · 18/06/2021 22:59

Eurghhh Angry

smudgemylife · 18/06/2021 22:59

Grim. Hope you didn't even give it a response

QueSeraSarah · 18/06/2021 22:59

Bleurgh

MyFloorIsLava · 18/06/2021 22:59

The only thing ruined are his chances of a shag

Defender90 · 18/06/2021 23:00

Yep he's ruined everything right there.

5475878237NC · 18/06/2021 23:00

I wouldn't want to see him again no.

TippledPink · 18/06/2021 23:00

Ewww definite turn off!

Concestor · 18/06/2021 23:02

Ugh. Put him in the bin and find someone else.

RAOK · 18/06/2021 23:02

Yuck 🤢

Bassetlover · 18/06/2021 23:02

Yuk! Bin him! Total lack of respect.

WarOnWoman · 18/06/2021 23:02

Ugh. Get rid. Plus, do people message friends whilst out on dates?

Elisandra · 18/06/2021 23:02

He’s shown you his level. Bin.

GertietheGherkin · 18/06/2021 23:03

Ewwwww... Dump him 🤮

VodselForDinner · 18/06/2021 23:04

My vulva had just made this involuntary “slupffffh” sound and has somehow retreated up my vagina.

Ick.

NotMineToTell · 18/06/2021 23:06

That is grim, I hope you dumped him

Original poster
naddycheer · 18/06/2021 23:06

I honestly don't know how he thought that was appropriate to tell me that.

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Original poster
naddycheer · 18/06/2021 23:06

I'm not seeing him again.
That's gave me the ick.

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AdoraBell · 18/06/2021 23:09

YANBU in the slightest. He sounds grim.

Glad you have decided not to see him again.

KikiniBamalam · 18/06/2021 23:10

Yuck

Verite1 · 18/06/2021 23:10

Yuk

happinessischocolate · 18/06/2021 23:11

Complete and utter turn off.

I've got one too...

First date with a guy last night, we got on well, but I'm not sure if I fancy him, so happy to go on another date to see if he grows on me. He's texted me a lot today but I've been busy at work.

He was talking about a program he's watching and said he's been thinking about me a lot today. I responded about the programme. He then says so have you been thinking about me today. I haven't but I said "maybe 😉" he now responded "lol, your playing hard ball" "bless you"

Urgghh I hate the patronising "bless you", and im currently stopping myself from replying "not playing, just not that into you"

😬