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Absolutely vile [Content warning: concerns child abuse]

35 replies

YouAreMakingShitUpNow · 08/03/2021 08:38

www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/scottish-news/serial-scots-sex-beast-who-23625450

This is an article about a peadophile who planned to have baby with a stranger so he could rape the baby.

There's almost no words for how utterly disgusting this is.

The premeditation to harm an innocent chile in such a horrific way is terrifying.

AIBU to think he should be monitored for life to make sure he is never alone with any child and that he should have to tell every woman he meets about his previous offences?

OP posts:
SenecaTrewe · 08/03/2021 08:54

I have no words. Just fucking despicable.

crowsfeet57 · 08/03/2021 08:58

He shouldn't ever be let out of jail.

TheQueef · 08/03/2021 09:00

Dunno who said YABU.
This guy will ALWAYS be a threat to children.

MuddleMoo · 08/03/2021 09:02

Who is saying YABU?!

FOJN · 08/03/2021 09:03

The twisted 34-year-old, who began downloading the animal abuse images the day he was released from prison, was also told he will be ­monitored in the community for 12 months after his release from prison.

Also

He had successfully kept the phone secret from police officers and social workers who were monitoring him in the community to ensure he did not offend further.

So monitoring works.

Someone this twisted and deceitful will always find a way to conceal his past. A permanent tag with tracking would be the only way of monitoring him to make sure he doesn't go to child friendly places. Having started to abuse animals too I don't know what the solution is to stop him short of life long detention.

TheSummerHolidaysMakeMeCrazy · 08/03/2021 09:03

This thread should really have a warning in the title of the content, I'm sorry OP but i really didn't expect the first sentence to be of child rape.

YouAreMakingShitUpNow · 08/03/2021 09:04

Wtf I'd like to know why you voted YABU?

OP posts:
TheQueef · 08/03/2021 09:05

@FOJN

The twisted 34-year-old, who began downloading the animal abuse images the day he was released from prison, was also told he will be ­monitored in the community for 12 months after his release from prison.

Also

He had successfully kept the phone secret from police officers and social workers who were monitoring him in the community to ensure he did not offend further.

So monitoring works.

Someone this twisted and deceitful will always find a way to conceal his past. A permanent tag with tracking would be the only way of monitoring him to make sure he doesn't go to child friendly places. Having started to abuse animals too I don't know what the solution is to stop him short of life long detention.

Or chemical castration. That'd help.
Moonmelodies · 08/03/2021 09:08

Or chemical castration.
That'd help

He'd still have a penis though.

YouAreMakingShitUpNow · 08/03/2021 09:08

Sorry TheSummerHolidaysMakeMeCrazy

I'll try get it added.

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Noshowlomo · 08/03/2021 09:11

He should be fucking strangled

SanFranBear · 08/03/2021 09:12

Perhaps people are voting YABU because your question is what should already be happening...

All registered offenders are monitored and the majority are supposed to disclose to those they meet who have children. A 'friend' didnt tell me and whilst he'd never been alone with my DC - this was more luck than judgement. I still had the police come to my door to advise me he'd been caught out and was back at court due to not disclosing to me.

So these safeguards are already in place - they just dont work very well as they rely on the offender who, for obvious reasons, won't necessarily follow them.

This is a truly abhorrent story, though, so I cant imagine anyone would be voting YABU had your question been phrased differently. I hope he is locked up and never let out.

Doingitaloneandproud · 08/03/2021 09:13

Oh my god, that's absolutely disgusting. People like this I support the death penalty for , he will always be a risk to children. Even castration he would just find other ways/tools. It's sick

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 08/03/2021 09:13

Dunno who said 'YABU' obviously Paedo lovers. Angry doesn't even come within a billion miles of covering it.

He'll only be monitored for 12 months after his release.ShockShockShock
What's the use of that. As PP says "He should ever be let out of jail".

There's no cure for paedophilia. You can " help" them until the cows come home. Its not going to make the slightest bit of difference or do the slightest bit of good. They're wired up wrong.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 08/03/2021 09:15

Oh yeah of course ask MNHQ to put a trigger warning.

Vegeetas · 08/03/2021 09:17

My DP and I frequently disagree on this subject. She is of the mind that they should be put in prison forever. Removing them from society to stew in a cell for a while might work on the average criminal but these are mentally sick people who will never really be mended.

I would personally pull the gallows lever / swing the headsman axe. There I said it.

It is all well and good having a kink but when your kink extends to someone who cannot consent and indulging yourself will literally harm them physically and mentally for pretty much the resdt of their lives then we have a massive problem.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 08/03/2021 09:18

@YouAreMakingShitUpNow

Wtf I'd like to know why you voted YABU?
There is always someone
FOJN · 08/03/2021 09:19

Or chemical castration.

I wouldn't be worried about the chemical aspect to be honest. Castration might reduce the risk of further offences but having gone off and googled it after reading this thread I found this:

slate.com/news-and-politics/2007/12/can-a-sex-offender-still-have-sex-after-he-s-been-castrated.html

So the risk is not eliminated. I don't believe men with this pattern off offending can be rehabilitated so lifelong detention does seem the only way. I can't pretend I don't feel resentful about the cost of that solution but children deserve to be protected from predators.

RaspberryCoulis · 08/03/2021 09:19

People are voting YABU because this post doesn't fit the forum. Nothing to debate. Bit of a pointless, ranty thread really where everyone just tries to outdo each other with potential weird punishments.

CroutonsAvatar · 08/03/2021 09:21

I can’t even read that. There is no place in society for anyone who can even think about that. It is the most disgusting thing you can contemplate.

CardinalLolzy · 08/03/2021 09:28

It's terrible.
In some parts of the world women are held for this very reason - to be forced into pregnancy to have babies for trafficking. More info in this thread (obviously it's distressing to read) :
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4098385-Women-held-in-babymaking-factory

The fact that there is sufficient demand for this makes me sick.

HOkieCOkie · 08/03/2021 09:30

@YouAreMakingShitUpNow probably an accident I’ve done it before now.

IndecentCakes · 08/03/2021 09:31

For the first offence he should have been in Rampton/Broadmoor indefinitely, because if that isn't 'criminally insane' then I don't know what is.

TheQueef · 08/03/2021 09:34

FOJN I've seen it used irl with an acquaintance and his friends. Not for sex offences but for violent offenders. The anecdotal difference I've seen is remarkable.
They can't get aroused or erect but as you indicated it doesn't stop all abuse.
I'm of the opinion it's an underused tool that could reduce offending.
We can't kill or maim them by physical castration so let's use our next best option!
I'm ok with the human rights of the offender being breached, perfectly ok with that and the teeny tiny percentage that could be a mistake. It's not a perfect or permanent fix but I'd be happy with the frisson of sexual excitement being removed.

Emeraldshamrock · 08/03/2021 10:22

They are predators, sick minded deplorable people who will go to great lengths for their fix.
I watched the Christian B documentary it beggars belief. Angry