A gemstone ring that isn't my birthstone? I have fallen in love with an amethyst ring on ebay. I dont usually wear jewellery and haven't treat myself in absolutely ages so really want to get it. However I can hear my grandmother's voice in my head telling me I will get terrible bad luck if I wear a gemstone other than my birthstone!
YABU = don't wear anything other than your birthstone
YANBU = Don't be daft, wear any gemstone you like