To wish there were more hot men?

[Socialbutterfly198]

[Lighthearted thread]

I’m not a shallow person at all - prefer personality over looks. But very, very occasionally I come across an extremely hot guy, and I wish there were more of them around. The kind you just want to ravage right there and then. The kind who stirs a certain feeling within you, something you forgot existed, and you feel alive and buzzing again. If there were more of them around, perhaps I wouldn’t prefer personality over looks then 🤣 For me, I find so few attractive, it’s such a treat when I find one! And, no, I am not asexual or picky 🤓

Harrison Ford can do one
Absolute sacrilege.

Oh I agree. Rarely do I meet a man who makes me all hot and bothered. Most are “growers”.
Shame, I just want someone to look pretty and stay at home lifting things

Hm... Nah.

More decent men. And more men that are genuinely good in the sack....😅

And if the temperature gets above 25C, then even worse.

🤣

I live in a naice part of London & still think there is a dearth of hot men. Lots of the dads are either overweight, stressed looking or have hit the cycling bug too hard & look weathered & hungry. 😆

Will be booking a trip to 🇦🇷 in 2021!

As a single 40 something I get where you are coming from. Having dabbled significantly with OLD, there are far too many men who think that a picture of themselves holding a giant fish, or worse, lying 'seductively' with their beer bellies on show is the sort of thing that gets us ladies instantly peeling out knickers off. Blergh. Don't get me wrong, I find a good personality far more attractive, but to see someone with the fwoargh!! factor is quite unusually, IMO. I do occasionally pass some handsome chaps IRL but they are usually far to young for me!

Please forgive my typos!

I'll just leave these two words here;

Ruben Cortada.

Most men aren't that great looking. Often even more confirmed when they take their clothes off

Have to agree with that unfortunately. I so long for a man who isn't a disappointment naked, and I don't mean penis size. It seems the norm is overweight and untoned, and to be honest I'm wondering if I'll ever see one I look at and think "phroar" ☹️ It's not as though I'm after a drop dead gorgeous, six-packed man gym bunny, just one with an attractive face, a twinkle in the eye, and a strong fit body.

@KumquatSquash

'... because women wear make up, hair extensions, shape wear, etc....'

That's why the above should never be used to enhance ones' looks, well, apart from no-make-up-make-up .
French women, Parisiennes, mostly, are so seductive despite their often quite unremarkable features, because they don't try to change their looks but bring out the very best in every feature they have been blessed (or not) with.

Hollywood me just look like that because they have so much work done.

I do think it's partly a UK thing. Other countries seem to have a much smaller ratio of hot men to hot women.

I remember the first time I went to Paris, being very pleasantly surprised at the amount of fit guys around, you just don't tend to see that so much here.