If money were no object

[InMyDream]

If money and any other constraints weren't an issue, what would you do?

I was thinking before how I'd love to just have someone who played with my hair 😂😂 like a daily massage I guess, but a head and hair massage. I just love it but DH will only rarely do it

Oooh I’m with you on that @InMyDream Id have a personal masseuse daily, every evening before bedtime.

I’d have a personal chef who made me every meal so I never have to step foot in the kitchen.

Oh yes, that sounds lush. I love having my hair stroked, I swear I was a cat in a previous life.

My number 1 priority would be a full-time house keeper along with cleaners and gardeners. I'd never do any housework again. Possibly a personal driver as well, as even though I passed my test I dont enjoy driving or the responsibility that comes with it.

Facial, massage, someone to open the blinds... but also a personal trainer so as well as doing nothing I'm very fit.

And I'd go back to uni just for fun. And extend the house and have more babies.

Yes to the personal chef! I was going to say someone to nip to the shops for me whenever I need something like milk but I guess the personal chef/shopper makes far more sense if we're talking all the money in the world

A cleaner, someone to do the endless effing laundry, and someone to wash my hair. I love that feeling.

Also, a soundproof room. Somewhere where I could be ACTUALLY QUIET. Without the endless presence of WFH DH, furloughed DS1, student DS2 and sent-home-because-a-classmate-tested-positive DD.

Oh yes, that sounds lush. I love having my hair stroked, I swear I was a cat in a previous life

Me too! My mum will sometimes do it when I go round there still! I'll sit on the floor and she'll plait my hair/mess with it for me whilst we watch TV, and I'm a grown woman haha.

This and having someone scratch your back... Heavenly.

Oooh what a question , yes definitely daily Indian head massages. And a helicopter to jet me off to any exciting city I fancied for the weekend

Talking of jetting off, one thing I've always loved the idea of us just going to the airport and choosing a place at random to go there and then!

Mostly I would like to stop job hunting and for dp to be able to retire (about 8 years off currently)

Personal chef, housekeeper, maid, personal trainer, chauffeur, hair fiddler, masseuse, gardener.....basically a full staff. Unlikely to happen unless I win the lottery but I live in hope!

I’d have a nanny or some one to take kids to nursery and school as walking and hanging about in the rain is horrible
I’d love to never have to do that ever again

Night nanny too - no more night time wakings for me

Cleaner - proper deep cleans then I could just do the nice stuff like light wax burners and wipe a surface with a wipe every now and then.

And also a personal trainer as once I’m exercising I actually quite enjoy it it’s just the motivation to get up and do it . If I had someone at my house I would definitely do it

A cook -
My cook would cook me delicious low calorie meals and only have cool low fat snacks so very soon I’d be super toned and trim
They would sort all the kids packed lunches and prepare after school snacks so that they were all ready for the kids.

All nutritional groups would be fully covered in every delicious meal.

Laundry keeper would be great too
Someone to do all the washing / ironing / putting back etc

Obviously I would have a huge house too with a room each for the kids , various playrooms , laundry room etc

Sigh ... all of this would increase my happiness levels hugely

Indian head massage yes, randomly stroking hair no. I hate my hair touched but scalp massaged oh yeahhh

Personal chef to cook delicious, healthy meals
Housekeeper
Personal trainer
PA
Counsellor

I’d travel the world, particularly remote islands, in the search for rarely found geocaches. My yacht would be fully crewed of course.

I would really love a beautiful swimming pool, like the floating pool in the most beautiful homes tv show. We travelled once somewhere very remote with our own private pool, it was another level experience swimming in the dark with the stars above you.

I would move somewhere quiet and have someone to take me shopping and keep the garden tidy, repair things etc. A swimming pool would be nice as long as someone looked after it for me.

Someone to make the school lunches and to do the washing!

I wouldn't like a lot of staff faffing around me at all - no.
I value my privacy.
Maybe home cooked food delivered would be good,
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Having my hair and scalp played with would give me nightmares. My mother always seemed to be in a bad mood when she would instruct me to stand still nad have my hair brushed, she would rip through my hair very roughly, often reducing me to tears.
I still have to pluck up courage to visit ( my very lovely and gentle) hairdresser.

I would love a gardener who could design the sort of garden I wanted and keep it looking amazing. I would love to travel, just short breaks and have someone I can really trust looking after all our animals while we are gone. I would also like someone to stroke the inside of my arm until I fall asleep every night!

Someone to put clean sheets on the bed every night.

I'd have a cleaner and a chef, and I'd get all my clothes tailored, or at least altered to fit.

Daily head massage definitely. Huge garden with staff to manage it. Lots of travel, big swimming pool, private beach, loads of land so DC could have their own place. Little boat. More dogs and maybe I'd adopt. Staff to make me less fat!

@InMyDream

If money and any other constraints weren't an issue, what would you do?

I was thinking before how I'd love to just have someone who played with my hair 😂😂 like a daily massage I guess, but a head and hair massage. I just love it but DH will only rarely do it

Do you experience ASMR when someone play with your hair? If so, you might find watching ASMR hair play videos on YouTube give you the same feeling, without having to o-opt your husband.

So much cosmetic surgery.

So much.