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Have I been living under a rock?

66 replies

mikkyr · 13/11/2020 12:33

I honestly thought Ariana Grande was more Taylor Swift than Cardi B....

Jokes aside. She just didn’t strike me as one for profanities in her lyrics. I’m no prude but I would happily have let my 8 year old be a fan without thinking about checking out the lyrics first.

Have I been living under a rock?
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CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/11/2020 12:53

Yes. There's a beautifully innocent video clip by Lewis Capaldi doing the rounds all about it not being about maths!!!!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/11/2020 12:54

Enjoy

peepercountry · 13/11/2020 12:58

She's 27 & obviously has sex, it's just because she presents as a toddler.

frosted232 · 13/11/2020 13:02

I think this is her first album with tracks like this. I still think of her as Cat Valentine in Victorious though! God I must have seen every episode of that show thanks to Dd who's now 15.

Anotherthink · 13/11/2020 13:04

Isn't most pop music dubious? Me and my friends would sing that we want to make love to ya baby to all our parents. That was spice girls!
There will be a radio edit and then there's no difference to most other songs.

Tinacollada · 13/11/2020 13:05

I was personally more offended by "break up with your girlfriend, I'm bored"

I want to teach my children self respect.

LoseLooseLucy · 13/11/2020 13:07

Me too frosted232. The voice she puts on as Cat made me want to throw the TV through the window.

IncludeWomenInTheSequel · 13/11/2020 13:07

So what? I grew up on Prince FGS.

Sweetmotherofallthatisholyabov · 13/11/2020 13:15

Warning - Taylor Swift curses in her new album!

mikkyr · 13/11/2020 13:20

@IncludeWomenInTheSequel

So what? I grew up on Prince FGS.
Yes. But Prince never made himself look like anything but who he was!
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Beeeees · 13/11/2020 13:23

She's pretty much always had songs appropriate for her own age.

yellowmaoampinball · 13/11/2020 13:23

I think the use of swear words comes as a shock because she can't enunciate clearly so you don't realise there are quite a few swear words in her songs as she could be saying anything!

yellowmaoampinball · 13/11/2020 13:25

Most of her sweetener album has the e for explicit by the tracks on spotify

MotheringShites · 13/11/2020 13:26

I read somewhere that the song ‘Side to Side’ is a reference to not being able to walk properly after being shagged all night.

ShebaShimmyShake · 13/11/2020 13:29

You've been living under a rock if you hadn't noticed that this is the absolute bog standard career path for many female pop singers: start off sweet and wholesome and then do an about turn on sexuality to shock everyone. Janet Jackson did it, Mariah Carey did it, Britney did it, Christina did it, Miley Cyrus did it and loads of others. It must work, I guess.

Thehollyandtheirony · 13/11/2020 13:35

I read somewhere that the song ‘Side to Side’ is a reference to not being able to walk properly after being shagged all night.

This ^^
It was widely publicised. She decided to play it at the Manchester benefit concert as a big fuck you to the bomber. As in, we will carry on singing, dancing and shagging and no loser suicide bomber can stop us.

romeolovedjulliet · 13/11/2020 13:36

@ShebaShimmyShake

You've been living under a rock if you hadn't noticed that this is the absolute bog standard career path for many female pop singers: start off sweet and wholesome and then do an about turn on sexuality to shock everyone. Janet Jackson did it, Mariah Carey did it, Britney did it, Christina did it, Miley Cyrus did it and loads of others. It must work, I guess.
they might all do it but it's nothing new and a bit boring imo.
PizzaForOne · 13/11/2020 13:38

Great tunes, love 34+35, break up with your boyfriend.

Also love WAP by Cardi

mikkyr · 13/11/2020 13:38

@Thehollyandtheirony

I read somewhere that the song ‘Side to Side’ is a reference to not being able to walk properly after being shagged all night.

This ^^
It was widely publicised. She decided to play it at the Manchester benefit concert as a big fuck you to the bomber. As in, we will carry on singing, dancing and shagging and no loser suicide bomber can stop us.

Good golly. I have been living under a rock 😂

My teenage step daughter listens to Billie Eilish and well ... I can only think of teenage depression when I listen to her!

I remember my parents stressing when I brought home a nirvana record. I think they thought I was doomed!

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wowfudge · 13/11/2020 13:41

I can't tell a word Ariana Grande sings most of the time as her diction is poor.

tabulahrasa · 13/11/2020 13:41

@MotheringShites

I read somewhere that the song ‘Side to Side’ is a reference to not being able to walk properly after being shagged all night.
Well yes, one of the Nicki Minaj verses has a line about riding the dick bicycle...
ImNotWhoYouThinkIam · 13/11/2020 13:45

When DS1 was in year R we made a slide show of something which he took into school to show his class. It had "So What" by P!nk as the backing track as that was his favourite song. Only we didn't use the 'radio edit' and didn't realise she said fuck in it. Maybe more than once. Until he took it into school. I was so embarrassed when I explained to his teacher at home time. Apparently she didn't notice it either Grin

contactusdeletus · 13/11/2020 13:57

I never knew Ariana in her Disney years. She first came my attention as a pop star and I thought she was always firmly in the raunchy stable of song-writing. She has some great songs but her entire career has been pretty sexualized - or that was certainly my perception.

First song I ever heard from her was "Love Me Harder", a duet with The Weekend which pretty much implores him to do what you think.

LagneyandCasey · 13/11/2020 14:01

@CuriousaboutSamphire

Enjoy

Brilliant Grin
Glitteryone · 13/11/2020 14:01

You must have been living under a rock. As a pp stated her music has been like this for a very long time.... Side to side was about not being able to walk properly after some very big 🍆

I’m definitely an Arianna fan. I love her music.... At the age of 33 I hope I’m still allowed to say that 😂

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