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Hotel threatening to sue us for bad review

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Itsalongwayto · 08/09/2020 19:44

Unashamedly posting in AIBU for traffic. We stayed in a truly dreadful place over the August BH weekend. I wrote to the owner afterwards expressing our displeasure and with a long list of complaints including unsecure blind pulls, a trampoline with no safety net, water features with no warning, general filth and 1980s decor (I expect more at £300/night). Additionally one of the curtain poles fell down on my head. He wrote back ignoring most of my points but stating that he was disappointed that I hadn’t said thank you to them for fixing the curtain pole so quickly Shock. I submitted a review on reevoo and Tripadvisor, neither of which have been published yet......but he has emailed threatening to sue us if we don’t take our review down (I’m assuming he has been sent a preview). We have photographs of everything except the awful smell.
I’m assuming it’s safe to just ignore and block? I’m not taking my review down.

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romeolovedjulliet · 09/09/2020 21:58

thanks for sharing the name, must admit i was gobsmacked by the owners comments, a real fruit loop.

Sleeplikeababy · 09/09/2020 22:02

If your review is true then feel free to post it. I've just read the bad reviews and his responses and my mouth actually hung open at how rude he is! The reply to Allie M!!!

FloresTorres · 09/09/2020 22:08

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InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 09/09/2020 22:21

Can you even begin to imagine what it must be like to WORK for him!?Confused

InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 09/09/2020 22:23

It's actually really pissing me off that he can reply to reviews like that and effectively call the guests liars, and get away with it! How does he still have any customers?

MiddleClassProblem · 09/09/2020 22:23

He’s on Twitter, king of the retweets...

BrandyandBabycham · 09/09/2020 22:28

wombatchocolate some of your post made no sense!

Higgeldypiggeldy35 · 09/09/2020 22:33

Can someone please PM me the name of the hotel I'm going crazy trying to find it on Google. (Yes I know I should have a life, but I don't!)

Aridane · 09/09/2020 22:36

Please, pretty please, someone PMme. I have gone down a rabbit hole of looking for this bloody hotel

MiddlesexGirl · 09/09/2020 22:39

Oh my goodness

"– I mean, are you challenged? You are a nasty piece of work Ailie M."

I always look at the 1* reviews. Sometimes they can be discounted but with replies like this ShockShockShock

bethebestofyou · 09/09/2020 22:49

@Krampusasbabysitter it is OP decision, but it would not be a rocket science (since most people know the name of hotel), which review belongs to OP on TA, and it might identify her in real life by some.

InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 09/09/2020 22:56

@Aridane

Please, pretty please, someone PMme. I have gone down a rabbit hole of looking for this bloody hotel
I would pm you but I don't know how Blush
Snufkins · 09/09/2020 23:01

That reply up the thread to Allie M - just copy paste to Google and it’s the first thing that comes up.

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Itsalongwayto · 09/09/2020 23:52

He’s just hideous. I can’t imagine working for him.

I nc for this post and will nc again, so if it does out me it will only be connected to this post. I don’t think I’ve got anything to hide from. It’s a horrible place and I have pics to prove it.....and he is trying to blackmail me.

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Itsalongwayto · 09/09/2020 23:53

He used to own/run a Christian bookshop in Barnstaple....apparently it was his own personal charity. I’m going to make the brave assumption that he didn’t read any of the books!!!!

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Aridane · 10/09/2020 00:21

Thank you everyone who messaged 🌺

For the reviews, it doesn’t look to bad on Trip Advisor. Where are you all looking?

SurroundedByIdiotsEverywhere · 10/09/2020 00:37

If it is an honest review and you have evidence (you do) he won't get anywhere with trying to sue you... Keep that as evidence too btw!

He is trying to frighten you off!

Go for it! Bad service/treatment deserves outing!

tectonicplates · 10/09/2020 01:01

@Aridane On TripAdvisor, click on the tick boxes for the one and two star reviews so you can see them all together without them getting lost amongst the good reviews.

PhilSwagielka · 10/09/2020 01:09

Bollocks he can sue you, he’d be laughed out of court.

overacupofcoffee · 10/09/2020 01:22

Lolasmiles I second that

I second the queries on the water feature and need for signs as it needs to be certain heights and rules.. signs everywhere look tacky and well let's get real water=caution around no?!
The decor did you not view before booking?
Cleanliness certainly
I read reviews look at photos and then book I suggest you do the same.
I survived childhood without a trampoline net and no broken bones.. so precious our our children they aren't allowed to break nowadays yawn

Jd1313 · 10/09/2020 01:27

He can't sue if it is of your opinion and of honest evaluation. Ignore him he's just calling your bluff, if anything refer him to the associated laws and ask him to refrain from further contact of will be taken as harrassment ect.

Kat19811 · 10/09/2020 01:54

You are entitled for your opinion. Any negative feedback will effect a business of course but by leaving a honest review you are telling others of your experiences and this will help people decide if to go there or not. You done nothing wrong .

yecannyshoveyergranny · 10/09/2020 04:32

There are photos on google of junk left lying around in the grounds. It looks like an actual
tip. The rooms look minging too. I don't think I would've slept a wink.

yecannyshoveyergranny · 10/09/2020 04:33

Btw op I can see a name attached to the same photos you posted here.

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