Who do you consider to be better looking, you or your partner?

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And does it affect your relationship at all?

My partner, by a landslide. It doesn't really impact our relationship.

Never thought about it, maybe because I'm not shallow and couldn't care less?

I would say him but I’m very insecure.

We were both at the back of the queue when looks were given out!

DH now (we used to be more even) he’s an acquired black-haired Hemsworth meets 90s boyband taste though.

It makes me self conscious sometimes but doesn’t directly affect the relationship.

I used to be. He said he was punching well above his weight. Age has taken its toll and we’re about even now.

I was when we first got together 11 years ago. I’d say he is now.

Me, till I look in a mirror . Always a surprise to realise who that hairy middle-aged woman is. He has nice hair and great legs though.

Partner- although I don't see myself as being too bad ( I think I look a lot better than than I actually do - often get a shock when I catch sight of myself in a mirror).

I don't consider this question at all.

He says I am. I don’t think I am I think we are equal/have our own traits of attractiveness.

I think he’s a nicer person than me though and looks aren’t everything. So he thinks I’m better looking and I think he’s a better person so surely this would even out a bit 😂

I think he felt insecure when we first met and intimidated by my looks in his eyes but over time he seems to feel less insecure and more confident in himself. I don’t like it if someone talks about leagues or punching above weight so I soon stopped that 😂

I think if you feel very insecure then this is your own issue not the other persons

I think we are about even.

Ha, Spied is my spiritual twin.

Doesn't affect relationship

My face is better looking, his body is amazing so we are even, has no affect whatsoever on our relationship.

I think I'm the one punching above my weight, DP thinks he is..

I suppose that's about as good a situation as we could be in!

I think we’re both attractive, but him more so - he’s absolutely gorgeous. He has a beautiful blue eyes / black hair combo and a fabulous strong jaw. He’s also very tall, which I like. People (like my mum / sister / close friends) have commented on how good looking he is in the past.

Should have said - doesn’t affect our relationship! We both really fancy each other

Never thought about it, maybe because I'm not shallow and couldn't care less?

hoiks bosom disapprovingly

At the moment, I'd say definitely my partner.

We used to be fairly evenly matched, but then I got train-track braces and I'm now spending a couple of years looking like Drew Barrymore in Never Been Kissed .

He, on the other hand, is regularly told he looks like a Latino Tom Hardy. And they're not wrong

It used to be me and then I piled on the baby weight which I have struggled to shift and my skin isn't anywhere near as good as it used to be.
DH seems to get better with age, it's just not fair!
I wouldn't say it impacts our relationship at all.

I am more conventionally so but he’s more popular and charming.

Definitely my husband.
I've lost some weight recently so maybe we are a bit closer but he is still definitely more attractive. I dont think it affects out relationship though

DH is much better looking than I am.
Blue eyes, thick head of hair, handsome profile.
He's not buff by any means. I'm the one with more tone to my body.

I scrub up quite nicely but I'll never be a patch on him. His younger brother is almost movie star handsome.