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AIBU?

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What she sent me was strange and bizzare

47 replies

Wtfdidshesendme · 12/02/2020 09:52

A fellow mum who I know from my DC's school sent me a snapchat this morning of her DD's poop floating in the bath 😶
Her DD(2yrold) wasn't in the bath but on the video you could see the mum, hand in the bathwater moving the bubbles around so she could get clear footage of 2 turds floating at the bottom, all the while giggling to herself.
She then decided to send the footage via snapchat for me to open 😏
We don't really know each other, we say hello and make small talk on the school grounds and that's about it. We're both in our mid 30s. She added me on Facebook and snapchat shortly after her DS and my DC started school together.
AIBU unreasonable to think this is bloody weird or am I, as my DH put it, being childish cause "it's just poop"

OP posts:
Wigglewaggle01 · 12/02/2020 09:55

I imagine she thought it funny and sent it to all her contacts?

I'm not sure I find it particularly funny but then maybe I'm missing something.

Hayb24 · 12/02/2020 10:00

I think maybe she thought it was funny so sent it thinking it may be as funny to her as other people? Or in an unusual way maybe trying to speak up a conversation? I'm not sure lol

I personally wouldn't particularly enjoy receiving a snapchat of that or send one out, especially to people I don't really know but maybe she's just trying to be friendly?

💩 😀

youareacuntychops · 12/02/2020 10:02

She probably thinks it's hilarious. It's something I would send to my husband or best friend with a similarly aged child.
I wouldn't send to some random school mum though.

Lumene · 12/02/2020 10:04

Maybe she sent it to you by mistake and meant to send to OH?!?

lifecouldbeadream · 12/02/2020 10:05

Perhaps you weren’t the intended recipient?

CakeandCustard28 · 12/02/2020 10:06

Maybe she’s sat cringing to herself as she sent it to the wrong person?

AvoidingRealHumans · 12/02/2020 10:10

As others have said, I would assume she sent it to you by mistake

Wtfdidshesendme · 12/02/2020 10:10

@CakeandCustard28 maybe I should ask her if it was intended for me? If she is cringing about it I'd rather her tell me it wasn't for me, it would be a whole lot less weird!

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Pardonwhat · 12/02/2020 10:20

But why would you be as invested to ask whether it was intended for you? Does it matter that much either way?
A quick ‘ewww aren’t they gross - who’d have them hey’ and move on.
I’m not sure I’m grasping this?

RuffleCrow · 12/02/2020 10:23

When i think of the petty things people ghost each other for these days, Hmm every so often an actual weirdo comes along and puts it all into perspective Envy

MarthasGinYard · 12/02/2020 10:24

I'd ignore

Perhaps she thought it funny Confused

Stompythedinosaur · 12/02/2020 10:25

I'd just ignore it tbh. She either misjudged the social situation or sent it to the wrong person. Mentioning it to her will just embarrass her.

7Worfs · 12/02/2020 10:26

That’s fucking disgusting.

MarthasGinYard · 12/02/2020 10:26

Perhaps it was sent in error but I wouldn't make a big deal and ask her.

Apolloanddaphne · 12/02/2020 10:26

Some people are just weird.

WorraLiberty · 12/02/2020 10:28

Meh, it's a bit weird but just delete the pic and move on.

Nothing2doooooo · 12/02/2020 10:28

She probably thought it funny. I don't (literally nothing funny about it to me) but would understand the humour intended and just ignore or send 'Lol' back if I'm bothered.Grin

youngestisapsycho · 12/02/2020 10:29

Was it sent just to you, or was it a general send to all her contacts?

puds11 · 12/02/2020 10:30

Maybe you have the look of a poo troll about you Grin

FoamingAtTheUterus · 12/02/2020 10:33

She probably just thought it was funny.

I love a bit of toilet humour > and whilst I probably wouldn't send a video of my kids bath bombs will hoot at fart jokes etc with others.

It is a case of know your audience tho. Grin

CakeandCustard28 · 12/02/2020 10:35

@Wtfdidshesendme ask her. I’m curious now to wether she’s a poo troll or wishing the ground to swallow her up. Grin

EssentialHummus · 12/02/2020 10:38

A bit odd but like a PP I'd reply with "Toddlers eh? Hope the rest of your day goes better!" and leave it at that.

honesttogod · 12/02/2020 10:39

Just ignore it.

FoamingAtTheUterus · 12/02/2020 10:41

Nooooooooo Essential the best response is none and just roll on as normal. Otherwise the op will be inundated with rainbow glittery pools, shit covered babies and vomit patches in the shape of the map of Paris.

Nip it in the bud now.

ButterflyRuns · 12/02/2020 10:42

It’s certainly odd, but I’d just move on instead of questioning why she sent it to you