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To be Depressed about my teeth do they look really bad?

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DoreenSamuel · 10/02/2020 20:35

My dentist told me today he’s referring me to see a specialist as my gums are so badly receded (i don’t smoke and have excellent dental hygiene- it’s hereditary), probably need gum surgery.

Anyone cheer me up?

I’m so upset ☹️

To be Depressed about my teeth do they look really bad?
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DoreenSamuel · 10/02/2020 20:36

Omg that’s a really big image 🙈

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WalkingOutOfFlabbiness · 10/02/2020 20:36

Dentists see things we don’t. I just see great well shaped teeth.

Velveteal · 10/02/2020 20:37

All I see are lovely white, straight teeth. I can see that your gums have receded because you pointed it out but if I were to meet you in person then no I wouldn’t give them a second glance.

mullyluo · 10/02/2020 20:39

If I met you I honestly would'nt think you had bad.

Arseit · 10/02/2020 20:39

They look absolutely fine to me. And you have a lovely smile!
I may be a cynic, is the specialist in the same practice?

DoreenSamuel · 10/02/2020 20:40

Thank you, I appreciate the positive comments

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Bettyspants · 10/02/2020 20:40

If its a dentist you've not had long term he may just be wanting a second opinion? They do look a little receeding (noticed only as you've specifically asked) but a colleague also has very similar gums, always has and apparently there's no issue. You're obviously really trying to show them and it clearly wouldn't be noticeable at all with smiling and talking ! Maybe best to be safe?

Haworthia · 10/02/2020 20:40

I can see where they’re receding. Sympathies - I have it too.

I would take the specialist appointment.

Batshittery · 10/02/2020 20:40

I think your teeth look lovely. What operation can they do? And why bother when they look so good

CastleCrasher · 10/02/2020 20:41

You have a lovely smile. And and a lovely shirt/top!

SerenDippitty · 10/02/2020 20:42

I’d love teeth like yours.

PixieRabbit · 10/02/2020 20:42

You have lovely teeth! I can’t see the gums though. What does the operation involve?

BrunoLovesMe · 10/02/2020 20:43

They look absolutely fine to me. Mine are horrific. My dentist tells me there’s nothing they can do. What is gum surgery?

zippyswife · 10/02/2020 20:44

You have lovely teeth. Don’t feel bad at all. If I met you I would think you had a lovely smile/teeth.
My old dentist used to scare me each time saying I had early gingivitis and periodontitis and send me to the hygienist. I switched dentists (within the practice) and have been told I have healthy gums and teeth and the hygienist is unnecessary. I’m now very cynical about it.

Velveteal · 10/02/2020 20:45

I’ve just googled receding gum images and in comparison yours look absolutely fantastic!

DoreenSamuel · 10/02/2020 20:46

It’s a procedure where the gums can be pulled down slightly over the teeth and I think a treatment plan to hopefully reduce them receding more, I don’t know any details he just mentioned it and said he’d make the referral. I guess if it goes wrong there are always dentures! 🦷

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AltheaVestr1t · 10/02/2020 20:47

You have lovely teeth! Straight, white and shiny. And a lovely smile. :)

SomeLikeItTepid · 10/02/2020 20:47

You have lovely teeth. Gum health is a completely different thing, and like you said, is probably hereditary. Thankfully you have a good dentist who's picked up on it before it becomes painful or irreversible.

ActualHornist · 10/02/2020 20:47

They look lovely to me - much whiter and straighter than mine.

Patsypie · 10/02/2020 20:48

I'm jealous! I wish mine were straight and white!

kaldefotter · 10/02/2020 20:49

Your teeth are lovely, and I'd never notice your gums. Don't forget that your dentist will see things that no ordinary person will ever notice. Do follow the advice your dentist gives you, but there's no reason for you to feel self-conscious.

MintySpud · 10/02/2020 20:51

I wish my smile were a tenth as beautiful.Smile

SameOldShite · 10/02/2020 20:51

I can’t see anything wrong with your gums.
Your teeth are lovely.

DoreenSamuel · 10/02/2020 20:52

Aw thanks ladies, I feel much better already

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TheTrollFairy · 10/02/2020 20:53

Without looking at what was wrong I looked at the pic and instantly thought you had receding gums. I don’t think I would notice normally but probably picked it out as your teeth look great.

Just go with whatever your dentist recommends. Don’t be upset, be glad that it’s been picked up so it can be sorted

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