They don't like me do they ...aibu?

[hallybarry]

A good friend invited me out with 2 of her other friends.
I've always got vibes that they didn't like me.
I suffer from anxiety and have zero confidence so tried to tell myself it was my imagination.
Saturday night we went out and my friend said "those guys are totally checking you out and looking at you"
Girl number 1 said .."no they aren't looking at her,they looking at you"
Girl number 2 said "they are looking at her ..only because of the camel toe she has in them trousers"
They don't Like me do they ?

Could be they dont like you- could be they are just bitches! I'll bet the latter

No, and they sound like they're 14 and terribly insecure. Ignore!!

Well girl no 2 is a bitch.

Girl no 1.... it's a bit hard to say. Depends on how it was said I guess. I mean she may have been right (or at least genuinely thought she was right).

I would go with bitches too.
I can't imagine anyone who is emotionally mature/generally nice would say something like that - even if they didn't like you.
You say 'girls' how old are these friends of your friend?

You've got lots of stories today.

2 is definitely a cow.

@ohwheniknow yes I've posted in the Christmas section..and?

Girl number 1 is 33 and number 2 is 29

Oh number two is nasty.

Number 2 is a bitch. With catty comments like that I’d say she was miffed they hadn’t noticed her!

Bitch 2 definitely isn’t a friend....

Number 2 is a bitch and a waste of your time and peace of mind. Ditch them!

Yeah number 2 really is number 2.
I'd make it clear to the good friend you're happy to see them but not 2. No need to mention 1 at the moment.

With friends like that who needs enemies. They arnt worth your time

What with this and the Christmas incident, you want to find some new friends

What a bitch #2 is! And I can only imagine number one was being a sneaky bitch.
Where they checking you out ? Probably jealous if they was.

Don't let people like that bring you down x

I was embarrassed when my friend said they were looking over because I knew her friends would say something catty.
Luckily I won't have to see them two now for another year.

Must we say 'bitches' about women .

OP, you don't 'have' to see them at all to be fair. The personal comment that was made was very immature and unkind and you know that- your friend does not appear to have stuck up for you though? If you have low self esteem I would seriously reevaluate who you spend time with, why would you see them again.

The best thing you can do is stop overthinking it, difficult when you have anxiety I am aware - but you don't like them surely, so what does it matter if they like you, you don't need them to! You did nothing wrong so shouldn't be punished by being the one at home reliving it, thinning about it and feeling distressed. I doubt they are at all.

They are both bitches did your friend stick up for you?

It’s not you, it’s definitely them.
Don’t let them get you down.

It’s probably a good thing they don’t like you- who needs people like that eh?

Must we say bitches about women.

When they’re behaving like bitches.
Yes we must.

I don’t know how old you are, but Not giving a hoot who likes will come with age, and You will come to realise that not everyone will like you. That doesn’t matter. They don’t seem to add anything to your life. Fuck them. Are you particularly madly in love with them.

They sound bitchy. I wouldn't make comments like that even if I did dislike someone.

Must we say 'bitches' about women confused When they behave like school ground bitches, Yes!

What else would you prefer? Cunts?

When you exchange xmas gifts just give them some out of date pound shop Bakewell tarts.

I couldn’t be friends with anyone who has such bad grammar. “Them trousers”

How petty and childish. Merry Christmas.