To LTB (lighthearted) for doing this

[TwatCat]

After 23 years being together, I've just realised that DH puts sugar on his cereals BEFORE adding the milk. What sort of savagery is this?!

Yum. Me too, on whetabix. Makes it melt a bit into the bisk.

That's ridiculous. Surely the milk washes the sugar off into the bottom of the bowl! Yes, ltb!

Erm. Then you end up with lovely sweet cornflake flavoured milk at the end. It's the best way😁

@WillLokireturn you're a savage too! Do you want him?

@funmummy48 I know right!? When I asked why he did it that way it was as if I was in the wrong, and he said that I'M the weird one!!!

@SafetyAdvice0FeedWhenAgitated nobody wants cornflake tasting milk!!! Milk is MILK!! You want milk tasting milk!!

That's nothing. Mine puts the milk in with the teabag, BEFORE the water he also does it with instant coffee. I nearly LTB the first time but have just never let him make a cup of tea or coffee since...

maybe that was his aim all along??

I'd leave you for saying 'cereals'

'Lighthearted'

YABU for calling it 'cereals'. It's just cereal. Gives me the rage, like when some has their 'periods'... It's PERIOD.

Anyway...

It's actually right to put milk in with the instant coffee first as the boiling water can burn the coffee making it taste bitter!

Ha cross post with @MarthasGinYard

@WillLokireturn you're a savage too! Do you want him?
Heehee.... Well us cereal -savages have a bit in common... Is he really such a food philistine as me though...? As.....
I sometimes put milk in before teabag (my DD's teenage friend told me off about that), I can't tell the difference.
I cook sausages & bacon in the oven for a full English fry up so it's more an 'oven up'
And .... Rule in my house, Ketchup does not belong in the fridge.

@MarthasGinYard
@jomaIone
In my defence, I was in too much of an outraged shock at the sugar savagery to realise I'd said cereals. 🙈

@Monkerina
@WillLokireturn
Tea should have hot water first before milk, coffee should have milk first to stop the coffee from burning. And I don't let DH make me a cup of tea as he makes it like gnat's piss which I now suspect is because he puts milk in with the teabag first, but I'm too scared to check as I'll run out of room on the divorce papers.

Ketchup goes in the fridge!!!

I suspect you are like my friend who goes to the 'Cinemas' to see a film

My husband says "cereals". It's one of his least endearing traits.

But, I thought it was normal to put the sugar on first? That way, you get a kind of sugary, milky crust! Especially on Weetabix. Although, obviously no-one actually eats sugar any more. That is sooo eighties.

I’m divorcing you both for having sugar on something that’s already too sweet.

Definitely milk first on cereal then sugar. Especially weetabix, because the biscuits go all soft and lovely and the sugar stays a bit crunchy.

Definitely LTB

@MarthasGinYard I go to the pictures. I suppose you go to the picture?

@Areyoufree I love a bit of sugar! 

@MrsTumbletap thank you! Someone who understands!!

You're both heathens.

There is no need for sugar on any cereals.

Proper porridge gets a pass for proper maple or golden syrup if you're not having seasalt.

I can't speak to milk and sugar on cereal, because ewww I don't have sugar on cereal. However, with milk and tea, milk should go into the teacup first so that the boiling water doesn't crack the fine bone china. If you're a heathen not using a china teacup, then I don't suppose the milk/ water order matters as much. 😀

Dh doesn't like that I dip cake and toast into my tea (not at the same time)

Depends what cereal sometimes sugar before like with weetabix or after like ready break once it's been nuked for a minute... add sugar nuke again for 30 seconds... lovely

It's cereals in our house as the kids and me always put at least two different types in the bowl together. DH doesn't understand this behaviour.

I mix cereals as well, usually bran flakes and granola and throw in a few sultanas as well, dh just looks bemused when I do this

I am a mixer too. Usually three different ones. I would leave all of you for putting sugar on. Only porridge needs sugar and then it must be brown.

YABU for calling it 'cereals'. It's just cereal

Ah, but the OP is talking about multiple instances of breakfast-related alleged abuse, so a plural makes more sense.