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To call out someone on FB for this? *(warning added by MNHQ: concerns abortion)

91 replies

Puddingmama2017 · 19/08/2019 14:30

I’m not usually one for getting my knickers in a twist about FB stuff, but this has really got my goat

To call out someone on FB for this? *(warning added by MNHQ: concerns abortion)
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TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 19/08/2019 14:33

Agreed, bloody awful!

LordNibbler · 19/08/2019 14:35

It's Facebook, what can you expect.

nothanksbyenow · 19/08/2019 14:35

What a horrible message to share Sad

Thingsdogetbetter · 19/08/2019 14:37

God, they've managed to link endangered species to abortion as an argument. They are getting more illogical by the second.

Unless I am carrying said turtle or eagle in my womb than I'm all for the penalties.

Call out! My body, my choice.

Ulverstonian · 19/08/2019 14:37

Call them out and then I’d be blocking them, but I would not have anything in common with someone who posts shit like that.

There is another thread on here at the moment from a distressed sounding 16 year old who thinks she might be pregnant. Not saying she should have an abortion but as she is in the UK that is one of many perfectly legal options for her, should she be pregnant. I wouldn’t want vulnerable people to be seeing posts like this as it could damage them.

summersherewishiwasnt · 19/08/2019 14:39

No one would disagree that killing an unborn human is wrong, however I think it’s the arbitrary definition of when an embryo is actually a human.

walkintheparc · 19/08/2019 14:40

Just block and move on. Don't draw more attention to it.

summersherewishiwasnt · 19/08/2019 14:40

Horrible argument to use. Block the idiots.

Puddingmama2017 · 19/08/2019 14:40

The person who posted it is religious, and is the mum of someone I knew ages ago. One of those random people that gathers dust in our friends list.

I had a termination 3 years ago which is why it resonates.

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GreatOne · 19/08/2019 14:41

YABU
Some people are pro-choice/pro-abortion.
Some people are anti-abortion/pro-life.
You don't have to agree.

lmusic87 · 19/08/2019 14:42

Idiot

LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 14:42

So they are pro-life? Many people are. Not sure why your knickers are twisted.
Pro-life people see embryos are babies so this is an accurate presentation of how they see abortion.

I'm pro-choice, but I'll admit it's a clever advert.

SistersOfMerci · 19/08/2019 14:43

I've found the most useful tool on fb is to unfollow people who post idiotic garbage like this or a couple who are on my friends list but I can't be doing with the hoohaa of infringing them, they like to post lots of edl stuff and similar without even realising what a bunch of racist bastards they are.

I'm so much happier now I no longer see their shit.

Wehttam · 19/08/2019 14:44

Call them out! Probably a religious nut job.

SistersOfMerci · 19/08/2019 14:44

Unfriending not infringing, strange autocorrect there.

Puddingmama2017 · 19/08/2019 14:45

I fully accept that people are Pro Life, that’s not the issue although I don’t agree.

You’re right, just unfriend and seethe to myself

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Tonnerre · 19/08/2019 14:48

What they artistically omit is that if you kill a "pre-born" human being in circumstances outside the parameters of abortion law, the penalties will be way higher than the ones they cite for other species.

CacenCrunch · 19/08/2019 14:48

Unfriend and block, there's no point getting into a discussion with them about it. I did similar with my old boss from my first job when she kept posting pro-brexit shit

AllieDidNotDeserveBea · 19/08/2019 14:49

Yeah, call it out - "I don't think the bald eagle mother would get a penalty tbh"

AmIRightOrAMeringue · 19/08/2019 14:49

Of course everyone is entitled to their own views.

But the argument is stupid

People are not an endangered species

People dont terminate their babies for prestige or to add to a collection of terminated pregnancies in the same way that people collect rare eggs

People terminate pregnancies because it's the best thing for the mother / the wider family. No one has ever used that argument to collect eggs

Its ridiculous to compare the two

There are lots of arguments against abortion that have a bit of logic. Comparing them to unrelated illegal activity to stop extinction of certain species isn't one of them

Picklypickles · 19/08/2019 14:51

I think you'll just have to ignore it, unfortunately there's just no arguing with stupid.

SeriouslyEnoughAlreadyRantOver · 19/08/2019 15:03

Ignore and move on.

Do not start an argument about embryo being a "baby" or not - to anyone who had to deal with baby loss, it's hugely disrespectful and painful. Mothers are allowed to be distraught if their baby dies, regardless if they were 16, 24 or 39 weeks pregnant. Their pain is valid.

KUGA · 19/08/2019 15:04

Stupid and idiotic.
I wonder if the hypocritic twats wear leather.
Bet they do.

Bezalelle · 19/08/2019 15:04

The person who posted it is religious

That's no excuse.

For what it's worth, I'm religious too but I would 100% call someone out who posted such utter bollocks.

SuperSara · 19/08/2019 15:04

I'd "challenge" them.

I wouldn't "call them out" because I'm not a 13yo American.