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To call out someone on FB for this? *(warning added by MNHQ: concerns abortion)

91 replies

Puddingmama2017 · 19/08/2019 14:30

I’m not usually one for getting my knickers in a twist about FB stuff, but this has really got my goat

To call out someone on FB for this? *(warning added by MNHQ: concerns abortion)
OP posts:
RelaisBlu · 19/08/2019 15:05

I'm pro-choice, but I'll admit it's a clever advert
No it isn't - it's beyond stupid

LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 15:05

Actually, looking at the advert more closely, I agree its stupid!

If I killed a bald eagle egg I would be fined/imprisoned, and if I killed your unborn baby, I would also be imprisoned.

However if a bald eagle mum kills her eggs, she doesn't get punished, just like if a human mum terminates her pregnancy, she doesn't get punished.

M3lon · 19/08/2019 15:06

allies response is the best....

There's no penalty applied to the mothers in any of these cases.....and of course human beings are very very far from needing protection from extinction...unless you include climate change which threatens the whole living world equally.

GabsAlot · 19/08/2019 15:07

Are they american? i see this alot i try and ignore unless its on a news comments section then i go for it

MTBMummy · 19/08/2019 15:07

TBH - I would love to respond with "Humans aren't in danger of extinction", but I'm a mardy cow who has to deal with these sorts of posts from elderly relatives all the time.

CallMeRachel · 19/08/2019 15:08

The comparison is totally irrelevant it's actually almost laughable.

Anyone who posts shit like that is a horrible person, lacking in a few brain cells and most definitely should be deleted from friends list!

What a tool!!

Sparklesocks · 19/08/2019 15:10

God they always think these images are real ‘gotcha’ moments don’t they.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 19/08/2019 15:11

Maybe though and taking opinions and beliefs into it. They factually do have a point. I am pro life I have no shame in admitting it. I’m allowed my views as much as the pro choicers. However I do also understand that, no women ever ever wants an abortion. They don’t want to pregnant in the first place. I’d never condemn a women for having one.

ElleDubloo · 19/08/2019 15:12

I agree with the meme, actually. But I wouldn’t put it on social media unless I wanted to be flamed.

Carthage · 19/08/2019 15:13

I bet they also support Brexit and believe in capital punishment too.

I'd unfriendl them too as I can't really see these kind of people as friends, even social media friends.

Magenta82 · 19/08/2019 15:13

No one would disagree that killing an unborn human is wrong

I would.
If it is in the body of a woman who doesn't want it there, then there is nothing wrong with removing it.

TooTrueToBeGood · 19/08/2019 15:16

What's the point? You're never going to change their mind. All you will do is draw yourself into an argument that will never be resolved. You'll end up feeling more stressed and pissed off, not less.

Lumene · 19/08/2019 15:19

You disagree with their argument feel free to say so. They are entitled to their views and to say so, so are you. I would call it discussion rather than ‘calling it out’ but whatever.

ElleDubloo · 19/08/2019 15:20

@Carthage - those things don’t go together

ACPC · 19/08/2019 15:20

You can't argue with stupid. Just be reassured you won't be alone in thinking this person is a total twit.

FudgeBrownie2019 · 19/08/2019 15:23

I'm pro-choice, but I'll admit it's a clever advert

What's clever about it? Not being goady, I'm genuinely interested in how this is clever.

whattodowith · 19/08/2019 15:23

Further proof that facebook is shite.

LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 15:25

No one would disagree that killing an unborn human is wrong I would also disagree. I'm very pro choice.

@Carthage I'm pro choice and support Brexit so...

BogglesGoggles · 19/08/2019 15:25

@LochJessMonster how? It’s like saying ‘hamburgers make you fat. Cheesecake is delicious.’ On topic but completely meaningless.

Cherrysoup · 19/08/2019 15:26
  1. call her out on it, presumably she's not American?
  2. block her, you d I nt need people who post that shit in your life, even peripherally
LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 15:27

@FudgeBrownie2019 Without thinking about it properly, I though it was clever, kinda like the vegan adverts about killing piglets but not puppies etc

But reading it properly, I then realised it was stupid - the mothers in the animal scenarios won't be penalised. And if I were to kill a bald eagle egg I would be penalised, just as I would be penalised if I killed someone else's unborn baby.

FairyFi · 19/08/2019 15:28

pro-choice, but I'll admit it's a clever advert.

Not clever in the slightest. Nonsensical,basicallt anything and everything that can be used, and its utter ignorant crap.

Different reasons, different targets, different everything.

There are no actual comparisons to be drawn here at all.

Be their friends,or dont, but expect they will post shit like this. As long as they're not deliberately upsetting you, just ignore.

Its just some stuff intended to induce guilt....nice.

I mean....'pre-born' Grin

LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 15:29

@BogglesGoggles which post are you talking about, I've already explained twice that I take back my original comment about it being clever!

Yabbers · 19/08/2019 15:29

I’d respond with “and thank God for that” then block.

LochJessMonster · 19/08/2019 15:30

I TAKE BACK MY 'CLEVER' POST - I DIDN'T READ/THINK ABOUT IT PROPERLY