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To be slightly concerned for DH's health as our dog keeps sniffing him?

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thethirdmrsdewinter · 23/05/2019 16:44

DH is outwardly healthy. Late-forties, fit and strong, no known current health issues. No recent changes, except that for the last month or so, our dog keeps sniffing/pawing one specific area of his abdomen.

DH first pointed this out to me - I think he thinks it's odd but unconcerning. A few times each day (and that's just when I'm there) she stands up against him and really sniffs this spot, a few inches to the left of his navel, occasionally gently pawing at it. There is nothing to be seen on the skin.

Last night when he took a shower I watched dog retrieve the t-shirt he'd just taken off, put it on the floor and sniff/paw the part of it that'd been on the bit of skin she sniffs. It made me feel uneasy, to be honest - she's never even taken a smelly gym sock from the laundry basket before now, and it seems strange to me that she's taking an interest in such a seemingly boring patch of skin.

So, am I being really stupid giving this any headspace whatsoever? Genuine question, and would actually be quite happy to be told yes, as I can worry a bit obsessively sometimes.

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lipslovelylips · 23/05/2019 16:45

I would go to the doctor to put my mind at rest.

doggydoodoo1 · 23/05/2019 16:46

Please tell your husband to see his GP. Dogs have a fantastic sense of smell.

Otisandolive · 23/05/2019 16:47

Omg that is bizarre. Please tell him to see GP and report back!

Myusernameismud · 23/05/2019 16:48

This would worry me too, but then I know that I can smell when DH or kiddos are coming down with something (ie an everyday illness) and people tell me I'm crackers. It's not unpleasant or anything like that, just very different.

All over 40s are entitled to an NHS health MOT type thing, so I'd book in for that. It sounds a bit less delusional than 'I'm here because my dog keeps sniffing me'.

Prtf1345 · 23/05/2019 16:49

Definitely see a doctor / have a scan or something. Hopefully it’s nothing but better to be safe

WiddlinDiddlin · 23/05/2019 16:49

Yep, I would speak to a Dr about that.

As a dog professional, I've come across many cases like this and always recommend the person sees a medical bod, every single time there has been 'something' going on.

Qweenbee · 23/05/2019 16:49

What can you lose by checking it out? What can you lose by ignoring it?

No brainer.

Dogparty · 23/05/2019 16:50

There’s nothing to lose by checking it out!

thethirdmrsdewinter · 23/05/2019 16:51

Fuck, it is weird, isn't it? I don't know how willing DH will be to see GP as he feels fine and would probably be a bit embarrassed to say it was at the dog's request... but I'm not going to be able to stop thinking about it now.

I was hoping you'd tell me I'm being ridiculous.

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chemenger · 23/05/2019 16:52

I had a patch of eczema-type dry/weepy skin on my leg which every dog I met would sniff, through jeans or whatever I was wearing, they can detect things that are different. Since the patch of dodgy skin has cleared up they've gone back to sniffing my crotch like a normal person.

SignOnTheWindow · 23/05/2019 16:52

What does your husband do as a job?

Could he be leaning against something e.g. in the work kitchen that has had food prepared on it?

I could never work out why I kept getting a mark on the hem of my top until I realised that I'd lean with one hip against the worktop when waiting for the kettle to boil. Worktop was grubby from coffee being spilt and not wiped up very thoroughly.

chemenger · 23/05/2019 16:52

And my cats were always the first to know I was pregnant.

user87382294757 · 23/05/2019 16:52

Does he have any pain / symptoms in the area?

Annabk · 23/05/2019 16:54

He needs to see the GP. It would not be classed as time wasting, if that’s what he’s worried about.

homemadecookie · 23/05/2019 16:56

How old is your husband? Practice nurses will be able to do an MOT with routine bloods, BP etc. So no need to actually see a GP. Get him to book a well man check.

recrudescence · 23/05/2019 16:58

Since the patch of dodgy skin has cleared up they've gone back to sniffing my crotch like a normal person.

Do you mean like a normal dog? Grin

homemadecookie · 23/05/2019 16:58

Oops sorry, just noticed you said late 40's. I'd still recommend MOT with nurse then he can book GP a week later to discuss results and any concerns. Any significant family history?

Slicedpineapple · 23/05/2019 17:00

Dogs have incredible senses of smell, I would go to the GP just in case. I have heard of dogs doing things like this, and my dog knew I was pregnant before I did.

MitziK · 23/05/2019 17:02

My GP, when I'd found a lump, actually asked because he could see the liberal coating of cat fluff on my jacket whether the cat had been particularly interested in that side.

It's fine to go in and say 'I know this sounds ridiculous, but the dog won't leave this part of me alone'.

SerenDippitty · 23/05/2019 17:02

I would definitely get it checked out.

DHhasahobbyanditsnotcycling · 23/05/2019 17:02

It really won't hurt to go to see a doctor, I would.

Tighnabruaich · 23/05/2019 17:03

Don't Google it if you don't want to worry yourself, but there are plenty of news items about dogs sniffing and sniffing and then the owner finding something wrong.

MollyHuaCha · 23/05/2019 17:04

Doctor

chemenger · 23/05/2019 17:08

recrudescence I did realise there was a double meaning, I meant, they sniff me like they sniff a normal person with no dodgy skin. I am not normally sniffed by people, normal or not Grin. I think the dogs sniffing my yucky leg were pretty normal.

Muffin3 · 23/05/2019 17:13

This actually happened to my mum, our family Labrador was behaving unusually needy towards her, pawing at her and trying to get up on the sofa to snuggle in to her abdomen all the time. He’s not allowed on the sofa and very well behaved so found it strange at the time. She went to the doctors and they found early stages of cancer, she’s fine now! Not to alarm you but definitely get him to go check, best be safe than sorry x

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