To not realise we was been nosey

[Worzilgummidge]

We live in a downstairs flat and I think I may of disturbed my neighbours and am feeling very embarrassed.
I heard 3 loud knocks from upstairs and realised. Should I apologise in the morning

Title should say noisy

Me and Dh where chatting and having a giggle feeling awful now.

I'd apologise but more importantly I'd make sure to keep the noise down in the future! It's 3am...

If you really were just chatting the sound must really carry. Can you do anything to improve the sound proofing?

Really you need to be pretty silent after 11pm.

Go and apologize and ask if you generally disturb them. Are they nice neighbours?

Nice enough as long as you don't do any wrong I would say.
They are both retired in early seventies.

I am starting to realise that flat living is tricky.

I'd be fucked off if I could hear my neighbors at 3am on a weekday!

Do you work shifts? Is there a reason you find it tricky not be fairly quiet in the middle of the night?

At 3am? fuck! Yes, you should apologise and keep the noise down at night.

I guess I would hate to hear them chatting as well.
We are decent neighbours and haven't had is sure before.
God help them if ever they get a young family with a crying baby.

Issues that should say.

I think people are a lot more sympathetic to a crying baby, which can't be helped, than they are to people who are perfectly able to be quiet but are just inconsiderate.

Me and Dh have trouble sleeping sometimes so start chatting, I hadnt realised the noise travels so much.

Some perhaps

I think noise travels more at night when there is less background noise.

I'm mortified to be honest I hadn't realised.

I will apologise tomorrow

Sounds like your flats don't have much sound insulation. That's annoying - I would expect to be able to have a chat with someone if I was having trouble sleeping without others hearing. Even worse, do they hear other activities.....

Just say sorry - you didn't realise they could hear you talking.

Sounds like your flats don't have much sound insulation. That's annoying - I would expect to be able to have a chat with someone if I was having trouble sleeping without others hearing. Even worse, do they hear other activities.....

Just say sorry - you didn't realise they could hear you talking.

Sounds like your flats don't have much sound insulation. That's annoying - I would expect to be able to have a chat with someone if I was having trouble sleeping without others hearing. Even worse, do they hear other activities.....

Just say sorry - you didn't realise they could hear you talking.

We love in a bottom flat. The neighbours upstairs take the piss sometimes. We have kids but they're at an age to not be too bad now. Where as the young couple upstairs have no excuse.

Flat living is tricky especially when the walls are thin like yours seem to be.

Also some people are completely unaware of how loudly they talk, laugh, have their tv on, or walk around.

Had upstairs neighbours who the man would wear his work boots in the house and stomp stomp stomp across the floor.

Chatting?
Is that what you call it these days?

Surely you know that at 3am you have to keep it down?

Living in flats is so shit for this reason. I used to be able to hear my neighbours chatting and it really kept my up but obviously they weren’t doing anything wrong just having a chat in their own home at 11.30pm!

Is your bedroom floor carpeted? If not a rug may help with sound insulation. Otherwise I guess you will just have to whisper and keep it down during the night.