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I am a stupid fat ugly loser

42 replies

fatandugly · 07/04/2019 10:55

Well thats it really. I am thick, extremely ugly, fat and i am the worst person ever.

OP posts:
PSILoveWine · 07/04/2019 10:59

Why are you saying this? Are you okay? Xx

NottonightJosepheen · 07/04/2019 11:00

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SnowyAlpsandPeaks · 07/04/2019 11:01

Why? What’s happened?

ScreamingValenta · 07/04/2019 11:02

What's happened to make you think this? I often feel the same but it usually only hits me after a specific incident that's upset me - what has upset you?

CallMeRachel · 07/04/2019 11:02

You ok hun? xxx
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Aimily · 07/04/2019 11:02

Why do you feel this way?

MyFamilyAndOtherAnimals1 · 07/04/2019 11:02

Cheer up OP, we all feel like that on different days, but just remember, tomorrow can be different Flowers

Why don't you pop outside for a breath of fresh air and some sunshine, and you may feel a little better? Smile

MotherofDinosaurs · 07/04/2019 11:03

You're not. Give me three positives about yourself.

clockworklime · 07/04/2019 11:04

U ok hun xxx

formerbabe · 07/04/2019 11:05

I'm sure you're not.

StealthPolarBear · 07/04/2019 11:06

It's unlikely to be true op but sometimes we do feel that way. Can you tell us more about what's upset you?

BarbarianMum · 07/04/2019 11:06

And posting this is going to make things better how?

fatandugly · 07/04/2019 11:21

Sorry I was just venting and I know I can sort myself out. I was just having a silly moment of feeling sorry for myself. I apologise. Normally I am more positive but thank you for replying.

OP posts:
Itsnotme123 · 07/04/2019 11:22

It gets it off her chest.

Itsnotme123 · 07/04/2019 11:23

It’s ok. I’ve done it too, it somehow helps putting it out there.

BarbarianMum · 07/04/2019 11:32

You dont have to apologise if it helps, I just don't see how talking yourself down like that would help. And even if you were hideously ugly, extremely fat and thick as pigshit (very few people are that unlucky) it still wouldn't make you the worst person in the world. Or even a bad person.

It's ok to feel sorry for yourself sometimes, you dont have to be a terrible person to deserve sympathy, even your own.

PinkHeart5914 · 07/04/2019 11:33

It’s unlikely to be true, most people have some beauty in them

Ginkythefangedhellpigofdoom · 07/04/2019 11:38

Hey! have you stolen my mirror!?

Just be aware that particular mirror is a fucking liar! Angry

See yourself through the eyes of the world and not your own because your own don't show you any kindness.

Change what you should for health and wellbeing reasons and learn to love or at least accept with niceness the bits you can't because the truth is you fall somewhere in the middle of what you think/see and what everyone else sees.

StormcloakNord · 07/04/2019 11:45

OP if it makes you feel any better I ate a fucking mammoth amount of McDonalds last night, this was after drinking many a pint of beer and generally just being a big fat bloated greedy drunk fuck.

I am also a shambles today, but it'll be fine tomorrow.

Rockbird · 07/04/2019 11:47

So am I, OP. And it fucking hurts. But I know those who love me would say I'm nothing of the kind, and I'm pretty sure you aren't either. FlowersBrew

sandi2019 · 07/04/2019 11:50

I bet you aren't xx
Easy to focus on bits we're not happy with and blow them all put of proportion xx

sandi2019 · 07/04/2019 11:52

Out* bloody phone x

KooMoo · 07/04/2019 11:54

Its crap when you feel like this. I’ve had moments myself. That’s all they are. Moments. Hopefully it’ll soon pass Flowers

CupoTeap · 07/04/2019 11:54

I'm feeling that way today, stupid photo shared on sm- the camera never lies however it seems the mirror does!

Hope you are ok after getting that off your chest. Sometimes it helps, sometimes not.

polarpig · 07/04/2019 11:58

Hey! have you stolen my mirror!? Just be aware that particular mirror is a fucking liar!

No, OP has stolen my mirror. It's still a fucking liar though! Angry

Is this the new 'I'm Spartacus' ?