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Neighbours put cable into their house from my side passage (pic)

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Neighbourscable · 03/02/2019 15:53

Detached house, with one side passage 3ft wide, so my side passage has neighbours sitting room, dining room and extension along one side, my own house on the other.

[Backstory] When neighbours put their extension up the builder encroached into our side by a couple of inches, put up capping stone which extends over a couple of inches more, plus they put a vent out of the dining room into our side passage without mentioning they were going to do this.
We let this go as we didn't want to fall out with them, although there was a sharp corner where the new extension began and we asked that this be cut back at an angle.

On Friday the neighbour asked my husband if we could leave the side gate open as the cable guy was coming to fix their internet and would need to work around the area above our side gate where the cable comes out from the ground. We said ok, both of us were out yesterday morning. Neighbour was a bit fudgy about what was going on, and what happened since has me very pissed off.

When I got back I realised the cable was going to be brought along the top bit of the brown area, and then above into the lighter area. I wasn't best pleased but asked the guy if he was going to chase the cable into the wall so it coudl be covered over. English wasn't his first language but I thought I was clear. He said yes and that he would be back.

A while later neighbour called to say all done, and I went with him to look and was not pleased to see what it looked like. Hope pic attaches ok. I mentioned to neighbour that cable guy was to come back to finish it, and he said no, that was it. I explained I wasn't happy about it protruding into our space, if we caught against it bringing bins or whatever out then we'd be taking out their internet. He said that would be their problem and I pointed out it would affect us too in terms of repairs having to be done and needing to take extra care in our own side passage.

Fact is, if we'd realised what they were planning we would have said they needed to find an alternative way. In our own case we had cables brought up over the roof rather than via the other neighbour's side passage.

I know it's their house and they have a right to tv and internet, but I don't see why they should be able to do it via our property, installing something permanently that we have to be careful about. Given what happened before, I feel like they're slowly spreading into our space.

I plan on going back and asking them to follow up to have cable chased into the wall.
Or am I being unreasonable?

Neighbours put cable into their house from my side passage (pic)
OP posts:
Butchyrestingface · 03/02/2019 15:57

I know it's their house and they have a right to tv and internet, but I don't see why they should be able to do it via our property, installing something permanently that we have to be careful about. Given what happened before, I feel like they're slowly spreading into our space.

Sounds like they are. Surely the extension encroaching onto your space and the vent is a more serious issue though?

Are you ever planning to sell your property?

Jeezoh · 03/02/2019 15:59

I think you’re being petty, I can’t see that it’s encroaching and if you do accidentally damage it and they haven’t covered it over as you’ve suggested, then that’s their problem to fix. I think the bigger issue is their original extension which you’ve already let go unchallenged

Newjobnewstart · 03/02/2019 16:00

Is it on your wall or theirs?
I dont really see it as much of an issue tbh and think your making a mountain out of a molehill.

Celebelly · 03/02/2019 16:01

I'm honestly not sure I'd even notice this or care. But I guess there's back story with the extension, which seems like way more of an issue than a cable on the side of their own house.

Celebelly · 03/02/2019 16:01

(Or is that your wall? I can't see how it would be if it's supplying their house though).

brizzledrizzle · 03/02/2019 16:02

I'd get it all put down in writing about them accepting the risk to their cable. Why on earth would you accept losing some of your land just to keep the peace? It's not the point that it's only inches.

Walkingdeadfangirl · 03/02/2019 16:02

But the cable is attached to their wall, not seeing how its on your property? Def sounds like the problem is with their extension and you have missed the chance to complain about that.

Bloo22 · 03/02/2019 16:04

I don’t see the problem, is the cable attached to their wall?

BrilliantDarling · 03/02/2019 16:05

Wow.

Shoppingwithmother · 03/02/2019 16:06

Everything annoys me. I would be annoyed by the extension, but even I wouldn’t care about that cable.

aaaaargghhhhelpme · 03/02/2019 16:07

So they encroach into your land and that’s ok but a wire on their property isn’t?!

I would legal advice on the land issue to be honest.

LIZS · 03/02/2019 16:07

So it runs along their wall? Does that form the boundary or is it a shared access? Ask them to cover it over with casing so you don't accidentally catch it but they are hardly encroaching

BrilliantDarling · 03/02/2019 16:08

YABVU and so petty that I think this must be a wind-up.

MargeryB · 03/02/2019 16:09

I wouldn't care about that cable at all, I would care about an extension built over the boundary!!

SinglePringle · 03/02/2019 16:09

I am very confused Confused.

It’s a cable on their wall, going into their house? But it’s encroaching on your property?

Still very ConfusedConfused.

Can you expand?

WhyDontYouComeOnOver · 03/02/2019 16:09

Surely that's their wall?

Eifla · 03/02/2019 16:09

Are you seriously getting your knickers in a twist about this?

BeanTownNancy · 03/02/2019 16:10

Meh. I would be taking literally 0 care in the passage with my bins and if I took out their cable would be like 🤷🏻‍♀️ "well it shouldn't be over my boundary".

Omzlas · 03/02/2019 16:12

I don't understand, is the cable on their wall or yours?

WetWipesGoInTheBin · 03/02/2019 16:13

If the cable runs along their wall then you need to put up.

If the cable runs along your wall or across your path then you need to kick up a fuss with the cable company. I actually know a few cases of this. One was resolved when the my acquaintance cut through the cable as they had run it through his front garden then into his neighbours rather than running it through the street.

PinkOboe · 03/02/2019 16:14

I couldn’t get worked up over that

pepperjack · 03/02/2019 16:14

I couldn't get worked up about that.

BIWI · 03/02/2019 16:15

Seriously?! I can understand you getting annoyed about the extension - but this? YABVVU and very picky.

Darkstar4855 · 03/02/2019 16:15

YABU to be bothered about the wire. You could always get them to paint or put plastic cladding over it if you don’t like how it looks.

I would be more worried about the extension being a couple of inches over the boundary with your property and the risk of this causing problems when you or they sell up.

KittensAndCake · 03/02/2019 16:17

I assume that's their wall but OP's alleyway.
The cable wouldn't bother me but the extension would have.

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