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Neighbours put cable into their house from my side passage (pic)

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Neighbourscable · 03/02/2019 15:53

Detached house, with one side passage 3ft wide, so my side passage has neighbours sitting room, dining room and extension along one side, my own house on the other.

[Backstory] When neighbours put their extension up the builder encroached into our side by a couple of inches, put up capping stone which extends over a couple of inches more, plus they put a vent out of the dining room into our side passage without mentioning they were going to do this.
We let this go as we didn't want to fall out with them, although there was a sharp corner where the new extension began and we asked that this be cut back at an angle.

On Friday the neighbour asked my husband if we could leave the side gate open as the cable guy was coming to fix their internet and would need to work around the area above our side gate where the cable comes out from the ground. We said ok, both of us were out yesterday morning. Neighbour was a bit fudgy about what was going on, and what happened since has me very pissed off.

When I got back I realised the cable was going to be brought along the top bit of the brown area, and then above into the lighter area. I wasn't best pleased but asked the guy if he was going to chase the cable into the wall so it coudl be covered over. English wasn't his first language but I thought I was clear. He said yes and that he would be back.

A while later neighbour called to say all done, and I went with him to look and was not pleased to see what it looked like. Hope pic attaches ok. I mentioned to neighbour that cable guy was to come back to finish it, and he said no, that was it. I explained I wasn't happy about it protruding into our space, if we caught against it bringing bins or whatever out then we'd be taking out their internet. He said that would be their problem and I pointed out it would affect us too in terms of repairs having to be done and needing to take extra care in our own side passage.

Fact is, if we'd realised what they were planning we would have said they needed to find an alternative way. In our own case we had cables brought up over the roof rather than via the other neighbour's side passage.

I know it's their house and they have a right to tv and internet, but I don't see why they should be able to do it via our property, installing something permanently that we have to be careful about. Given what happened before, I feel like they're slowly spreading into our space.

I plan on going back and asking them to follow up to have cable chased into the wall.
Or am I being unreasonable?

Neighbours put cable into their house from my side passage (pic)
OP posts:
AdobeWanKenobi · 03/02/2019 18:39

They are well within their rights to remove those gate fixings from their wall so I'd be very careful how I tread if I were you OP.

Babyboysarenowbig · 03/02/2019 18:44

Seriously? Get a grip.

I can’t stand my neighbour, as in he’s creepy, gives me the willies, annoying, loud and I could go on. I still let him put out his recycling and bins on my property as it’s easier then him trying to get them all out in his small plot. My go to saying is ‘in the grand scheme of things how relevant is it’. Apply that to his cable encroaching in your air and it comes out as pretty pathetic.Hmm

Thymeout · 03/02/2019 18:49

I'd be v careful about demanding that the cable company cover up the cable to protect it. Virgin Media use a fluorescent green tubing that would be much more of an eyesore.

Honestly, Op, you're being incredibly petty. It sounds as if you're projecting a legitimate(?) grievance over the extension on to something that really doesn't matter a jot. As pp said, if it had been there when you bought your house you wouldn't have noticed it.

anniehm · 03/02/2019 18:50

If their extension is even a cm onto your land you won't be able to sell unless it's all written into the land registry documents. We lost a buyer (and thus the house we were buying ) because our buyer had this very issue on his house and would take months to sort out the paperwork.

BoomBoomsCousin · 03/02/2019 19:03

"They are well within their rights to remove those gate fixings from their wall so I'd be very careful how I tread if I were you OP."

They probably aren't. Those gates would have been put in when the houses were built (since they are the same for all the houses in the row) and there will be an implied right to have the gate attached.

kindlyplay · 03/02/2019 19:09

You have got to be fucking joking?

CluedoAddict · 03/02/2019 19:24

You are being ridiculous. It's a small cable attached to their wall.

soulrider · 03/02/2019 19:25

I like the idea that land registry plans are accurate to centimetres.

DointItForTheKids · 03/02/2019 19:44

People are made to tear down buildings have been built 1 inch too big compare two plans and if that excess crosses the boundary as stated in the existing deeds at land registry then it would be a problem wouldn't it.

CherryPavlova · 03/02/2019 20:03

I wouldn’t be happy with it as it is. It’s ugly. Very ugly. Can they have it chased into their wall or at worse hidden inside plastic ducting?

kindlyplay · 03/02/2019 20:04

I wouldn’t be happy with it as it is. It’s ugly. Very ugly.

It's a wire. A bloody wire fgs. Presumably OP spends her time inside her house and not up the side of it staring at her neighbours wall.

hazell42 · 03/02/2019 20:08

Wow..Majorly unreasonable. Why would you care?

Waveysnail · 03/02/2019 20:37

Yabu. It's a small cable on their house. It's attached to their wall in an alleyway. You really need to get over it

Riotingbananas · 04/02/2019 00:27

I wouldn’t be happy with it as it is. It’s ugly. Very ugly.

Grin Grin Grin

AGHHHH · 04/02/2019 01:16

Yabvu...

Tartsamazeballs · 04/02/2019 05:19

Sod the cable, good luck ever selling your house!

Shallishanti123 · 04/02/2019 07:02

I presume you must have had some kind of pay off for the extension... with that not being an issue, but the little wire being an issue.

I don’t think you will bang it with your bin. It’s not sticking out that much.

TheOxymoron · 04/02/2019 08:06

What about the gate attached to your neighbours wall?
Is it your gate?
They could say that is encroaching on their property.
Pick your battles carefully.

longwayoff · 04/02/2019 08:21

OP there are many things to worry about today, this probably shouldn't be one of them.

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