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OLD would you bother meeting this guy?

41 replies

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:16

Conversation started out fine.
Then he moves to telling me that the reason he doesn't have looking for a longterm relationship on his profile is because there are gold-diggers. (I had told him that he couldn't offer what I want).
He then proceeds to send me photos of his three cars (2 Aston Martins, one Merc SUV) and two motorbikes.
I'm battling with UC, with really bad teeth.
WTF is this guy thinking?
Believe me, I love money and nice cars as much as the next golddigga, but what does he fucking want? Why pick on me!

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19lottie82 · 11/01/2019 19:17

I wouldn’t meet him based on the fact he’d sent me photos of his cars, what an attention seeking show off!

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:19

I actually know the answer. He wants a fuck.

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tsonlyme · 11/01/2019 19:19

They’re not his vehicles for a start.

I came across a couple of this type when OLD, they’re just looking to be revolting towards women.

Next!

CruCru · 11/01/2019 19:20

Move on. Realistically if he’s fretting about gold diggers before he’s even met you, he’ll be a horrible boyfriend.

Imalittleelf · 11/01/2019 19:20

Have a look at the photos... do the backgrounds look the same place.... I would wonder if they were actually his cars...

Has he left the number plates in the photo ?

MepsiPax · 11/01/2019 19:23

Sorry,but what's UC?

Bambamber · 11/01/2019 19:24

So because he had on his profile he wasn't looking for a long term relationship, you said he couldn't offer what you were looking for? And that's when he sent the photos?

If that's the case it sounds like you may have bruised his ego and he's not used to being told he isn't what you're looking for. Don't take it to heart, easier said than done though I know

thisismeusernameything · 11/01/2019 19:24

Postbone if the pics op. I’ll be able to tell you if it’s a generic picture he got from google

StoneofDestiny · 11/01/2019 19:26

What's OLD (assume it's not advanced years)?

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:26

God, I'm not that good at photos and detective work. Anyway, I've told him where to go. Also dumped Mr. Oxford PHD today aswell. I'm on a roll! Grin
Mr. Unemployed like meself is looking good for a date haha.

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IJoinedJustToPostThis · 11/01/2019 19:26

Online dating

Idontbelieveinthemoon · 11/01/2019 19:26

God no, don't meet with anyone stupid enough to think that three photos of (likely someone else's) cars is enough to earn a fuck. Does nobody work at it any more?

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:27

UC is Universal Credit.
OLD is Online Dating.

Sorry, I hate acronyms too!

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Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:29

Bambamber. Yes, you've got it in one.

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Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:30

I do actually believe that he owns all this shit, I was dating a guy over the summer with a Porsche. But if he owns all this shit and wants to find a nice girl who likes him for him, he's going about it the wrong way!

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MissLanesAmericanCousin · 11/01/2019 19:31

Absolutely not. The pic of the cars who make me want to vomit.

Idontbelieveinthemoon · 11/01/2019 19:32

Even if he does own them, he's going to come across like a wankshaft for sending pics like that. Cars and pricks; don't send pics of either.

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:32

He's an ass.

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Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:34

I wouldn't mind, but on my profile, I have in the Interests section posted 'Not cars, please don't talk at me about cars'.
Oh well.

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StoneofDestiny · 11/01/2019 19:34

Thank you. (I thought UC was ulcerative colitis and couldn't work out why it affected OP's teeth).

Wotev · 11/01/2019 19:38

Lol. Ulcerative Colitis sounds as grim as Universal Credit.

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Itsmenotyouisntit · 11/01/2019 19:39

Reverse search the pictures of the cars then when they come up on Google images send him the screen shots.

I was once chatting to chatting to a guy when very randomly sent me 3 pictures of very different, very large dicks. I asked him if he was the circumcised one or the one with the blue tinge 🤷‍♀️ he didn't reply.

KC225 · 11/01/2019 19:44

Is Jeremy Clarkson online dating?

Wotev · 11/01/2019 20:27

I guess it's what guys like to show off. That or their intellect.

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Reflexella · 11/01/2019 20:38

Yea I wouldn’t bother.

  1. There’s a bitterness about women there. Gold digger?? I’ve got my own money thanks.
  1. Show off - who sends pictures of their car to woo someone?