Please, quickly advise, aibu?

[LuckySantangelo]

Dh says to me tonight, in just general convo about food ' the woman who serves my dinner is so rude, I pointed out the egg I wanted, and she said, get your fingers out, so I said, you weren't saying that last night'

I'm like he thinks I'm bu coz it's' banter '

Nah, bantz is bantz, innit?

Ew

Thats fucking immature and disgusting id not be surprised if she put a complaint in about him.

Ltb

Gross. LTB.

Huh?

Gross!!

The fuck? Your husband sounds like a creep.

It'll be hilarious when she complains about sexual harassment, tell him.

That's actually disgusting. I think I would loose all respect for DH if he said that.

I made a similar joke tonight to someone about group sex. It just came out but it was funny. It's all about context.

Yuck. No.

He probably thinks it is ok if she smiled at him, as if she is thinking "wow he is funny" but more likely "ffs why do I have to be spoken to like that when I am trying to serve your food"

What do you mean by 'woman who serves his dinner'? As in, at a restaurant?

The really sad thing is he's still repeating it, like it was quip of the year or something

Suggestive creep , how can you bear him OP?

Yuck. No.

He actually said that to someone who was serving him food?!

That's absolutely vile, unnecessary and way beyond banter. He deserves to be reported (if thats even possible)

Plus he really shouldn't be getting his fingers so close to the eggs!

Burny fingers.

It is half term

Grim.

YANBU

Tell him people on MN think he is a sexist pig - and when he gets upset, tell him it is ‘just banter’.