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Sleeplessinguiltyness · 01/04/2018 15:11

My cat collapsed and died this morning, I can barely remember driving to the vets.
It seems so unreal, I worry for his sister who's hiding, my husband, how to tell people without falling to pieces, I just feel numb, when I left him at the vets he looked like he was sleeping. No warning, no illness, nothing, he wasn't even old, stayed indoors and was spoiled rotten. He just flopped down, had a fit or something. I literally cannot even think straight Sad

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TurnipCake · 01/04/2018 15:12

So sorry OP, what a horrible thing to happen Flowers

Smokeyrobinson · 01/04/2018 15:13

I'm so very sorry - sending you lots of love xx

Sparklingbrook · 01/04/2018 15:13

I am really sorry, that must have been such a shock. Flowers

ghostyslovesheets · 01/04/2018 15:14

awww poor you xxxxx big hug

Itsnotanthrax · 01/04/2018 15:15
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Sleeplessinguiltyness · 01/04/2018 15:15

He was my silly little boy, I thought he was just having a crazy moment, playing, being clumsy. I even tried to pretend he was tricking me for April fools as if a cat has any idea about April fools
He's not going to cuddle me or knead me or wake me up with his annoying whiney meows

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Starlight7777 · 01/04/2018 15:18

Lean forward, imagine arms around you. Tight warm squeeze. Gentle hand stroking your back.

So sorry sweetie Thanks

SneakyGremlins · 01/04/2018 15:19

Oh OP, I'm so sorry SadFlowers

AnneProtheroe · 01/04/2018 15:20

I'm so sorry. 💐

staffiegirl · 01/04/2018 15:21

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Sleeplessinguiltyness · 01/04/2018 15:29

Thank you all Sad
Family are away for the minute, don't know how I'll tell them

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Sparklesocks · 01/04/2018 15:31

So sorry my love, he was lucky to have you for the short time you shared together 💗 be kind to yourself

Want2beme · 01/04/2018 15:33

That's really sad. So sorry this happened. It's awful when they leave us Flowers

DramaAlpaca · 01/04/2018 15:34

I'm so sorry. What a shock for you.

Have a big

Pastaagain78 · 01/04/2018 15:35

Sorry. Big hug.

DowntonCrabby · 01/04/2018 15:36

I am so sorry for the loss of your furry boy.
Please tell us about him, I would absolutely love to see a photo.

Hugs and wine xx

BigDamnHero · 01/04/2018 15:36

I'm so sorry. What an awful shock for you. Sad Flowers

OldQueen1969 · 01/04/2018 15:37

Newbie lurker here and haven't posted before, but as a total cat worshiper myself just wanted to add my hugs and love xxx

fuckingjournocunts · 01/04/2018 15:38

I am so very sorry for your loss Thanks

StewPots · 01/04/2018 15:41

So sorry OP Thanksxx

Thehamsterspajamas · 01/04/2018 15:43

You poor thing. Big hug sent your way. I can’t imagine what a shock you’ve had Flowers

clearingaspaceforthecat · 01/04/2018 15:45

So sorry OP.
It doesn't sound as though he suffered and he was at home with you.
Hopefully you can take some comfort from that in the days ahead.
Flowers

Daifuku9 · 01/04/2018 15:48

I am so sorry for your loss. Flowers

Sleeplessinguiltyness · 01/04/2018 15:51

It just doesn't seem real. Even reading my post it seems like its someone elses post.

He was 4, so stoopid and snuggly and silly and followed me everywhere

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TheSassyAssassin · 01/04/2018 15:52

Oh Sleepless. It's the worst feeling in the world. Totally understand. Still miss my girl. Sending you my biggest hug (((((((❤))))))) Hope you get a huge one in RL v soon! x

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