To tell other school mums to do one ?

[MumGrowingOldTooFast]

So long story short, last week DH and I had an engagement so weren't able to pick SC up from school. Luckily DH brother had week off work so volunteered to pick kids up and look after them for an hour, squared this away with the school and all good. Must mention DH brother is extremely good looking (imagine a late twenties David Gandy and you get the idea). Since then I've had 4 different mums come and speak to me (a couple who I have never spoke to before) regarding BIL, wether he's single, job, etc. AIBU to tell them to do one ?

Bit harsh. It’s funny surely? Just laugh it off.

so what?

Is he single? Are they single? Set them up!

So you've either joined MN just today or name-changed to discuss telling other mothers to fuck off because of your apparently very attractive BiL?

Ok sure.

You need to let it go because it doesn't matter.

Do you want him for yourself op? Joking aside why are you so bothered. I would just laugh about it.

They are shallow and using you but I'd ignore it. depserados

Bahaha. I had this when my ex did the school pick up for the first time. Hilarious. When we go to parents evenings or Sports Days, they all fawn all over him, right in front of me. He’s very good looking but also shy so it’s amusing to watch. He has a very pretty (and lovely) DW who finds it equally as funny as I do.

Firstly I wouldn't want, the awkwardness if things didn't go well, yes he is single but I'm quite convinced women are his thing if you catch my drift and also feel about aggrieved now people I have never spoke to are speaking to me because of a man. I know I'm being a bit silly lol.

You fancy him don't you OP?

I had this with my super handsome stepson

He used to pick up ds from nursery occasionally and soon the staff used to fall over themselves to be ds’s keyworker.

Unintended benefits

Haha he is not my type but will admit he is a very, very attractive man.

School mums are always other people.

Tell them you are in a threesome relationship. You are the dom and they are your subs.

That should kill all the gossip dead

You fancy him don't you OP?
Exactly.

Why on earth would this bother you so much?

I really don’t understand why this would annoy you tbh. It rather reveals that the women concerned are a bit shallow but You don’t have to hand out any information about him.

I'd think it was shallow of them - if they have never spoken to you before, and now have started to, just because they want something (someone) then I'd be a bit

David Gandy is gorgeous though

Can't see why this would bother you, I think it sounds quite funny. If you don't want to set him up just say he has a girlfriend/boyfriend.

why does this make you angry?
Surely if you didn't fancy him yourself, you would have a laugh and a joke about it...:)

your poor DH

David Gandy you say...

I've just PMd you

David Gandy eh? Any chance I could get his phone number?

I can see why it would be a bit offensive and irritating that people are only talking to you in order to inquire about your BIL. I would try and see the funny side though and, if he's as handsome as you say, it's not really surprising that people are showing an interest in him.

Just tell them he's not single.

It does sound a bit shallow, but it is boring hanging around waiting for the kids to come out of school and seeing him about must have brightened up their day a bit maybe? i would just laugh it off myself -
i would probably say ' yeah, he is nice ' and leave it at that.
he doesnt do the school run for you very often, it will soon become old news!

DH is completely fine with it, he is very secure with himself and plus as I've said BIL is not quite my cup of tea.