To find this off putting?

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DP has taken to coming to bed wearing just a vest, no pants or underwear. He says it's because his bottom gets hot(sorry TMI)

I just find it odd and a bit cringe to see 'it' flappin about under his top, if he were completely naked then fine no problem. I just find this a bit off putting..... thoughts?

Off putting for what?

How old are you? I assume you mean his penis. It isn't going to do you any harm without a thin layer of pjs covering it.

I’m with you...it’s weird!

Just a vest? Does he not look like a giant toddler mid-nappy change?

Ha ha no I know I won't see it once he's under the covers, it's nothing to do with being prude or anything like this, and I do appreciate its comfortable for him so I wouldn't say anything to him.

I just find it odd looking, am I the only one?

Am I supposed to be laughing this much

Does he brush his teeth before or after undressing op...

@iklboo lol, yes!! But hairier

Yes I’d find that a turn off. But his right to be comfy overrules my need for him to be sexy. What do you wear to bed, OP?

Jesus OP. We're half way through February and you've started one thread about how you hate your OH's beard (which he's had three years), commented on someone else's thread about hating their OH because he snores that you could have written the same post, and now we have you started a thread because he wants to wear a vest in bed because it's bloody cold at the moment and you don't like the fact that you can see 'it'.

1. You won't be struck dead for using the words penis or dick.
2. I'd like to know whether your OH has lots of moans about you too and why you're even with him and had children with him (even since he's had a beard) if all this bothers you so much.

Haha that’s made me laugh I’m afraid but I also kind of agree with you

@BuckysRoboticArm I'm glad not the only one finds it funny. He gets undressed downstairs, i guess to minimise the noise he makes coming to bed as ds2 is in our room, so he walks up the stairs like this then goes to brush his teeth 😂

Sorry I'm more shocked at a vest! Who apart from little ones where vests?

Wear*

weird that he wears a top with out bottoms why doesnt he just sleep in the nude

The foilies berges comment has seen me off

@ShatnersWig wow are you stalking me?
Maybe it's because we just had our second baby and we have been arguing a lot, I get literally no sleep while he snores away.

I love the guy to boys despite all these things but I could honestly start another 50 threads about how he annoys me!

I'm sure I annoy him too! I know I'm not perfect.

To bits that should say not boys

I'm currently single but while I was with my ex for 11 years and we did eventually split up because we grew apart, there's no way I would be in a relationship with anyone if I could start 50 threads about how much they annoyed me. Sorry, I just find that odd.

We were on holiday in Skiathos. The beach we were on was next to the nudist beach. Lots of men walking past with t shirts on to protect from the sun but with their bits, or should I say penises, dangling down

They are mostly little things, like not putting things back in the fridge or using my hairbrush and getting gunk on it. They're nothing to do with Jim as s person, I guess it's more my ocd that is the problem!

We have been together for 15 years this year,

Him that meant to say, I'm case you think his name is Jim 😂

@sandgrown did you think it looked odd?

Donald Ducking. I find it cringey too