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Pissed off at a random photographer

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:10

Earlier today my DP was parking his car when a woman walked over to him and told him that she had taken a picture of his car bonnet (Not sure when said pic was taken)

The car had been in a accident when owned by previous owner and so the paint work on the bonnet has a "speckled" effect on it.
The woman said she liked the way the "speckled" effect looked in the light so she took a picture (bonnet only) and sold it for £400 on a photography website.
I've been pissed off about this ever since.

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Nicknacky · 20/11/2017 00:11

Why would you be pissed off?

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:13

I don't get why she had to tell my DP how much she earned from the picture as she didn't bother to ask if she could take the picture in the first place.

It's just annoyed me

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steff13 · 20/11/2017 00:13

I don't get it either.

steff13 · 20/11/2017 00:14

Cross post. You don't have to have permission to take a picture in public, do you?

Nicknacky · 20/11/2017 00:15

Well, she probably thought it was a sort of compliment. Why has it annoyed you so much?

steff13 · 20/11/2017 00:16

Maybe she thought he'd get a kick out of knowing that the bonnet (that's the hood, right?) of his car was in a photo contest.

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:17

@Nicknacky I can't say 100% why it has annoyed me so much. I think it's mainly because she mentioned the money she had earned. We don't know her so why bother coming over to tell DP in the first place!

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Nicknacky · 20/11/2017 00:18

Like I said, she probably thought he would be chuffed that it was so special.

Battleax · 20/11/2017 00:18

You're annoyed because your OH has a crapsmobile which someone else randomly made a chunk of money from and you think telling him that lacked tact? Is that it?

Battleax · 20/11/2017 00:18

Yes the hood steff Smile

RefuseTheLies · 20/11/2017 00:19

Is it possible she was fibbing about the amount of money? I imagine it's actually pretty hard for amateur photographers to sell a picture for £400. Or is she a known, established professional?

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:20

@Battleax I guess so yes

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IslingtonLou · 20/11/2017 00:20

Why, do you think the money should have been yours?

It’s weird though

Battleax · 20/11/2017 00:20

If she was going to track him down, she could at least made him a print or given him the link. Or her card. Or something.

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:23

@Refusethelies I have No idea who she is but £400 does sound quite a bit for what it is.

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Battleax · 20/11/2017 00:23

@Battleax I guess so yes

I've driven some real heaps of scrap metal in my time so I think I'm empathising quite strongly Smile

Artistic types don't think like the rest of us. (I'm married to one.) She probably did think it was a nice thing to share.

Thymeout · 20/11/2017 00:26

She might have taken the picture before the previous owner sold it. I can't see why asking is such an issue anyway. Could have been parked at the time. You don't need permission to photograph a car, or even its owner.

She probably thought you'd be interested that an arty photo of your car was on a photography website. Silly her.

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:28

@IslingtonLou I thought it was weird but it's enterprising I guess.
Just to randomly go over and tell the person how much you made. It was just that which bothered me

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:33

My DP has had the car for a few years so the car now has nothing to do with the previous owner.
She just randomly walked up to DP told him she had taken a picture and made £400 from it. She didn't mention the site or anything

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IslingtonLou · 20/11/2017 00:41

Well she may have been chuffed that she got such a decent amount for the photo, and wanted to share it with the car owner - as I assume that she saw the same car again by complete chance and was excited to see his response. Isn’t it weird to think that someone, somewhere, has the photo of his bonnet up in their house??

SilverySurfer · 20/11/2017 00:44

More MN weirdness Hmm

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 00:48

@IslingtonLou She could have at least showed DP the picture!

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HelenUrth · 20/11/2017 00:49

Well, heck, take a few photos yourself of the bonnet and see how much you can flog them for?!

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Nutellalovesme · 20/11/2017 01:00

@HelenUrth That's true but maybe she has the copyright for the picture now that she sold it

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Bloomed · 20/11/2017 01:03

Very curious to see the bonnet now.

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