Thank you all- and sorry about how negative my posts seemed last night. I was in shock I think.
I'm waiting for The Call atm. I keep giggling about the most random things- it's weird! If any of you know me from the PLL threads, you may know that I always pull an all nighter on Tuesdays. I said to DH this morning that, if it drains me so much that I fall asleep tonight, there'll be a few pissed off MNers. He looked at me like I'd gone out! 😂
Poor guy. The first thing he knew about this was when he picked me up from my friend's house. I waited until we had driven around the corner, then called the 101 number.
He stopped the car while I was on the phone, restarted it- and drove straight to Tesco to get me some beer.
He doesn't "get it", and that's a blessed relief! To truly get it, he would have had to have been through it- and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. The more people who don't get it, the better IYSWIM.
So as not to drip feed, there is a bigger picture. I've done this before. This man was one of a long line of people I was exposed to when I was younger. I took the ringleader to court back in 2005.
If I sound brutal and factual, its becausethat's how I deal with things- I tend to bark out facts. Facts are easy. Once the facts are out, I can then deal with the emotional fallout.
Ffs- another whiny post! On a lighter note, my cat has just jumped into my bath water! 😂