Ok - so the deal is, I work full time and am always at homw to put DS3 (aged 1), and DS's (4 and 6) in bed, story etc., while DP goes to the pub every night and comes home after bed time. It's starting to tee me off and sometimes to be honest, I sit in the car at the end of the road for ten minutes before walking into the house, because much as I love the kids, I would love to have a bit of downtime before coming in. I know this might sound like a whinge and I'm prepared to accept that, but does anyone else have similar issues?