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AIBU to think that accusing this person is pretty disgusting

46 replies

greypinkandpurple · 25/03/2016 08:19

Almost six years ago a friend of mine was involved in "car accident " horrendous one with all sorts of consequences running up to now
While ago she received a few nasty emails with some sort of accusations that she at least was involved in ea and sirious afair
The sad thing is that friend actually just started walking and living with out debilitating pain around two years ago
Knowledge of permanent consequences of accident it self is still heartbreaking
for my friend and all those disgusting accusations are very damaging and obviously false
She doesn't really know how to deal with them or how to react

People should really think hard sometimes while acusing someone of something
Friend obviously suspect that everything of that comes from x or y person and considering it any explanations are absolutely hopeless and to personal as well
From a perspective of being a third party in this
It's like accusing person with out legs of plans to go for a run

OP posts:
OneLove10 · 25/03/2016 08:21

Was your friend actually having an affair?

RJnomore1 · 25/03/2016 08:21

Eh?

PassiveAgressiveQueen · 25/03/2016 08:22

How many abusive partners have everyone else wrapped around their little finger, nobody will ever believe the partner, "not freddy he is fantastic just being caring".
So who inows

sooperdooper · 25/03/2016 08:23

Why do you describe it as a 'car accident' - wasn't it an accident?

xenapants · 25/03/2016 08:24

What?!

FaithAscending · 25/03/2016 08:27

I've reported this thread, it seems too odd to be true!

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 25/03/2016 08:28

I just don't get it...sorry

Queenbean · 25/03/2016 08:31

Say it again?

FiveSixPickUpSticks · 25/03/2016 08:32
Hmm
pilates · 25/03/2016 08:32

Sorry, your thread is very muddled.

Is this friend you?

RaisinGirls · 25/03/2016 08:32

I'm not sure what the car accident has to do with the email?

CakeNinja · 25/03/2016 08:34

Say what now? Confused

StuRedman · 25/03/2016 08:34

A who did what where?

LagunaBubbles · 25/03/2016 08:35

OP this might make sense in your head but you will have to come back and start again!

BIWI · 25/03/2016 08:36

Why "car accident"? Is this a euphemism for something else?

And what does that have to do with her being accused of having an affair? Just because someone is in terrible pain after an "accident" doesn't mean that they aren't capable of having an affair!

BastardGoDarkly · 25/03/2016 08:36
Hmm
DanglyEarOrnaments · 25/03/2016 08:36

Is this a case of 'autocorrect gone bonkers' ? Confused

Friolero · 25/03/2016 08:37

So your friend is being accused of having an affair but she can't have done because of the effects of the "car accident", so what should she do about it? Is that what you're trying to ask?

molyholy · 25/03/2016 08:37

Wtf

WannabeHippyAndCrazyCatLady · 25/03/2016 08:38

Hmm say what now?...

I think you need to rewrite this op.

leghoul · 25/03/2016 08:39

friend severely injured in accident, couldnt walk, long term injuries and debilitating pain -now things are looking up and has regained ability to walk/ pain improvement- but now accused by one person of having had a (physical/sexual) affair at or around the time of the accident, which (following the accident) would not have been physically plausible in the circumstances

TheDuchessOfArbroathsHat · 25/03/2016 08:39

It's started early today............. Hmm

leghoul · 25/03/2016 08:39

maybe

Twowrongsdontmakearight · 25/03/2016 08:39

I thought it was about someone having a car accident and an ea and now it's over they're claiming the accident was a set up.

leghoul · 25/03/2016 08:40

but that applies a narrow definition of affair, and OP hasn't made clear when the affair was allegedly commenced