DH out for drinks with friends / work colleagues yesterday. I saw him outside a bar about 4pm drinking beers... Staggers in at 9:30pm saying he's left the restaurant where they were having dinner "because he doesn't feel well". Clearly swaying a bit so follow him upstairs.
He gets into bed then ten seconds later gags and vomits massively all over our bed and lovely cream carpet. After sending him to shower, stripping bed and remaking it, he gets back in (after his brief & unsuccessful attempt to clean up by hoovering up the sick).
Obviously this is disgusting but what's bothering me more is that he refusing to say he was drunk. He just maintains he's "not well". To me it seems foolish to drink for 5 hours if you are not well, and equally possible that drinking for that many hours and not eating would make you sick anyway. Both his parents are recovering alcoholics which he is very critical of as affected his childhood, but he seems to drink more and more and always has excuses - usually that it's part of his work life.
Fed up. Not seen him all week as working away and now having to spend the weekend cleaning up and buying a new carpet instead of having family time.