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To cringe when people start posts with 'Just that really'

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LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 20:29

It never is 'just that'.

They always go on to elaborate their point, so why bother with the prefix 'Just that really'? I find it both lazy and a little annoying.

I am obviously a grumpy old woman and probably BU. But - does anyone else sigh when they see this?

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MagentaVitus · 01/06/2015 20:46

Language, for me anyway, is about expressing intent and tone. I can't get wound up about little idiosyncrasies like that.

EatShitDerek · 01/06/2015 20:47

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LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 20:48

Yes - I know it's me being grumpy. Just wondering if I'm the only one Grin.

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LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 20:49

'Shiny shit'. That's another one! starts new thread

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EatShitDerek · 01/06/2015 20:50

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BlueBananas · 01/06/2015 20:50

Oh I started a thread like that today, the title said it all but then I went on to elaborate because it looked too harsh
I hope I didn't inspire this thread Blush

Silvercatowner · 01/06/2015 20:52

I get irritated when posters start their post by saying 'Right.....' (as if they are saying 'here comes the definitive answer'.) My choice to get irritated,

treaclesoda · 01/06/2015 20:57

I consider myself quite a grumpy old woman but it appears I am actually a mere amateur. Even I can't muster any outrage or irritation at these linguistic crimes. Grin

FirstWeTakeManhattan · 01/06/2015 20:58

I get irritated when posters start their post by saying 'Right.....' (as if they are saying 'here comes the definitive answer'

Yes to this. It is annoying.

OP, YABU. Your one barely registers on the register of annoying shit.

Icimoi · 01/06/2015 21:01

No problem with "Just that, really".

Quite a major problem with posts beginning "So,..." It adds nothing except three or more totally unnecessary key strokes.

Flyinggeese21 · 01/06/2015 21:04

OP I find it slightly irritating but only because it's a MN cliché. I suppose if people spend long enough on a website the 'stock phrases' get engrained.

Perhaps people use it if they feel their OP is quite brief and it's being slightly apologetic for that (but without reason IMO).

usualsuspect333 · 01/06/2015 21:05

MN is like having a conversation. It's not some sort of formal writing exercise.

So no, I don't give a monkeys either.

So there.

pictish · 01/06/2015 21:07

Nope. I like all the nuances of language. Doesn't bother me.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 01/06/2015 21:08

I use "so" all the time. I am perfickly aware it is incorrect. I don't give a shit.

Grin
LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 21:09

Aha. Perhaps it's a very subjective experience. Because I actually like posts that start with 'Right...'. They come across as sort of assertive.

Unlike the wishy washy limp handshake that is 'Just that really'.

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Royalsighness · 01/06/2015 21:12
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MythicalKings · 01/06/2015 21:13

Not as irritating as the patronising "you knows" that crop up sometimes.

Because, you know, they really are annoying.

LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 21:17

BlueBananas - no it wasn't you! (Promise)

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LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 21:21

Usualsuspects I thought MN was a formal writing exercise?

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BathshebaDarkstone · 01/06/2015 21:25

I've started with "just that really" because I've already said it all in the title. Sorry. Blush

LowMaintenanceVeg · 01/06/2015 21:27

Hmmm. Do you know - am now starting to wonder at my unreasonableness.

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usualsuspect333 · 01/06/2015 21:28

I do the irritating 'you know' quite a lot.

So, you know,tough.

EatShitDerek · 01/06/2015 21:30

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EatDessertFirst · 01/06/2015 21:32

I did that yesterday.

I apologise.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 01/06/2015 21:35

Never mind OP, I'm sure you'll get over it.