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to be upset that someone reported me on fb?

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Serotonin · 19/11/2014 22:43

One of the people on my friends list has reported one of my pictures for nudity as I had posted a pic of me breastfeeding my daughter Sad

I have no idea who it was because I thought everyone I had on my list were decent people.

If anyone is interested I am posting feeding photos on fb under the hashtag #BreastfeedingIsNotNudity.

I feel so let down - I don't want to be friends with someone that holds that sort of view...

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MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 20/11/2014 00:15

If it's in a comment thread then at the very least anyone who is friends with anyone else on that comment thread can see that post.

So it's probably not even someone you know.

Serotonin · 20/11/2014 00:16

mine was the only comment on the thread which was a post shared by me to my private page

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kali110 · 20/11/2014 01:09

Was it a photo set to your profile pics?

QueenTilly · 20/11/2014 09:20

Well, someone with the initials ND has posted pictures under that hashtag in the last 24 hours, and there's an FB conversation thread below it about how awful it is that some of the photos were reported. She has her timeline open. If it's your friend, tell her. For example, I could even see a picture of two Coca Cola bottles with her names on.

If she's nothing to do with you, then someone is reporting lots of pictures under that tag or facebook are monitoring it of their own accord.

Blondeshavemorefun · 20/11/2014 09:22

scarletforya long story

my dh died 3.5yrs ago - suicide - hung his self and I found him :(

Obv I was very upset and Lways crying (and at times still am very tearful but time is a great healer) anyway one of my crying days one of my friends lifted her top up in public and showed me her boobs in a brA. I was gobsmacked and started to laugh

Word got around so all my friends did the same and I started a boob album on Fb in bras. Friends started to text me pics of them in bras and the male friends wanted to help so they offered their bums - tho do have a few hairy chests (male) in bras in my boobs album

So have a boob album on Fb and bum album tho every now and again a bum pic got reported Hmm and I got banned as I said in my original post. The ban extends each time. Week was the longest. So ive now locked it so only I can see it. Boob album is still there

Basically I have an amazing friends and they and my family and now my new partner got me through the worst time of my life

Sorry for hijack :)

RiverTam · 20/11/2014 09:30

how many FB friends have you got, and how many are actual friends? When I read these things it always seems that people become FB friends with so many people that they hardly know, and that's where these problems start. If you can't tell if someone has unfriended you it sounds like you have loads of friends - maybe knows the time to have a cull?

FreeWee · 20/11/2014 09:32

That's a great story blondes, your friends rallying round you obviously not the heartbreaking situation you found yourself in. So lovely that they wanted to cheer you up and clearly people with no understanding of why you have those pictures have reported you.

If any of my photos were reported by a 'friend' I would feel there was someone in my close circle of friends who I couldn't trust. I'm only friends on FB with people I'm friends with in real life, not everyone I know. It would bother me too OP especially if it was BF that got me reported. I love seeing my new mummy friends BFing in photos. It normalises something completely normal anyway.

Gunpowder · 20/11/2014 09:50

Flowers Blondes. I'm glad you've got nice friends. Smile

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