my partners sister asked me to be a bridesmaid last year, they are getting married next june. I just found out im pregnant and will be due about 3 weeks before there wedding but now they have said in a nice way that basically they dont want me to be a bridesmaid because im pregnant and i wont have lost the weight for the wedding. me being me said im fine with it but its really upset me. am i wrong to be upset, they still want me to be apart of the wedding but not a bridesmaid!! 