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WIBU for telling this man to stop spitting...

31 replies

mymoonandstars · 04/09/2014 21:22

next to the fruit & veg stall in our local market Shock

We were both stood there, looking at the apples so right up against the fruit. He turned his head, phlemed up and spat it out, then turned back and carried on.

I said "I'm sorry but that is just disgusting, at least use a tissue and move away from the food if you are going to be so vile."

His wife shot me daggers and made comments to him about me being a rude bitch. Now ok the gentleman was older, probably about 60 and may have been ill (I'm trying to find a reason why he may have felt this was acceptable) but REALLY? Even if you have a condition/cold virus/bronchitis or whatever, you carry a tissue and dont spit on the street next to food? WIBU? They were totally unapologetic.

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Notacs · 04/09/2014 21:23

No, you were not at all unreasonable.

Utterly vile!

helenenemo · 04/09/2014 21:23

Not unreasonable ANYWHERE! Vile x

mymoonandstars · 04/09/2014 21:25

I thought the wife was going to clump me!

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mineofuselessinformation · 04/09/2014 21:25

YA so NBU. Filthy old sod!

SevenZarkSeven · 04/09/2014 21:27

YWNBU

mymoonandstars · 04/09/2014 21:28

It was the nonchalant way he turned back and just carried on looking at the fruit that upset me. If I'd got there 5 minutes later I could have been buying something with his spittle on it!

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hmc · 04/09/2014 21:29

No YANBU

I was at the gym one on a treadmill and the guy next to me gobbled on his treadmill whilst he was running Shock

hmc · 04/09/2014 21:29

At the gym 'once'

Jumblebee · 04/09/2014 21:31

YWNBU, I absolutely despise spitting. I hate the noise, I hate seeing it on the ground and the thought of anyone else's spit on my food is revolting Confused

BornFreeButinChains · 04/09/2014 21:32

I thought spitting was banned somehow? If seen fined, altough never happens? Spreads Tb? or is that old.

I think its beyond vile, another disgusting thing to navigate on our fouls streets.

comediewithme · 04/09/2014 21:32

At the doctors once, a man in the waiting room lifted his shirt, scooped something out of his belly button and flicked whatever it was in to the middle of the room. I told him off, and good on you as well for telling off this horrifically mannered scum bag!

MrsCurrent · 04/09/2014 21:33

No YANBU, I'll bet no-one has ever pulled him on it before so thinks it's absolutely fine. Unless people speak up then it becomes acceptable by proxy. Bet your heart was racing!

mymoonandstars · 04/09/2014 21:36

The wife looked hard as nails tbh. I was bricking it! But I just couldnt stop myself, next to food?! FOOD!

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MrsCurrent · 04/09/2014 21:43

Lord knows what my new phone is typing, it makes suggestions and inserts them! Ignore the by proxy as I have no idea where it came from!

ScrambledEggAndToast · 04/09/2014 21:45

YANBU x100. It actually makes me feel sick when I see people doing this and when I see little piles of spit on the floor. Good on you for saying something. The closest I have got is giving a Disapproving Look. You have now inspired me to go one step further next time yeah right Grin

Peppa87 · 04/09/2014 21:49

Spitters are vile yanbu

MuddlingAlongMum · 04/09/2014 22:25

Urgh! YANBU!
I told a young boy off in the park today for spitting at another child he was arguing with. At least he had the decency to look contrite when pulled up on it!

Gruntfuttock · 04/09/2014 22:31

He deserved someone to throw up all over him for being so revolting. It is nauseating behaviour after all, so he should take the consequences.

WorraLiberty · 04/09/2014 22:31

YANBU

My DS's old infants head teacher saw a parent spitting in the playground. She marched into the toilets, grabbed a paper towel and ordered him loudly to clean it up!

It was right next to the slide ffs where the kids come off

bensam · 04/09/2014 22:56

Yanbu. Absolutely disgusting!

feathermucker · 04/09/2014 23:07

Absolutely gross! No need whatsoever!!!

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 04/09/2014 23:10

She made a comment about you being a "Rude bitch". What about the vile thing she's married to. Ewww dirty beast spitting like a serpant. How disgusting, by food as well. I hope it's nowhere that I shop.
For the record Y.N.B.U

DorisIsALittleBitPartial · 04/09/2014 23:16

Vile, vile, vile. I HATE spitting with a passion. Well done you, the most I can muster up is a wiltering glare.

Aeroflotgirl · 04/09/2014 23:39

Public spitting should be banned and fined, not only it is a disgusting habit, but it carries the risk of disease and infection. Good on you for shaming tge disgusting spitter.

Alisvolatpropiis · 04/09/2014 23:57

Yanbu!

Spitting is disgusting.